This article was written by one of my readers Michele and I would like to thank her for her contribution. It may not be to everyone's tasted but I think it deserves a place on this site. It is the first part of a 9 part series. As ever comments are welcome……..Holly

I will likely get some flack with some of the things said here. I know not everyone appreciates things so intimately shared. It’s certainly not myintention to offend anyone but at the same time I don’t feel a need to apologize for being who I am.

I’m not a ‘writer’ nor is this something I normally do. I’m just here sharing a bit about myself, some of my experiences and things that some may or may not find interesting, and some of them definitely not the ‘norm’, but perhaps worth a bit of exploration in their endeavor to add a bit of spice to their lives.

This Is “Titillation” – I Want You To Know You’re Not Alone

With that I’ll just add that this is not meant to titillate as much as it is to make others aware that they are not alone in their insecurities and negative feelings about their bodies, and that we can all learn to love ourselves just as we are.

When growing up as a teenager and all through High School, everyone knew that the girls with big boobs got all the attention. God knows there’s nothing wrong with big boobs, plenty of men love them and I spent many of those early years wishing I had them myself, though in my case I was apparently never destined to have big breasts.

I Made My “Other Assets” Stand Out

To make up for what I considered to be the ‘unfair advantage’ the other girls had, I made up for it in other ways. I always had nice legs so I wore my skirts ‘extra’ short, which as you can imagine got me plenty of attention, and not always just from the students..

By the time I was seventeen it seemed my breasts had stopped developing altogether. I barely had anything to show through my tops and was for the most part considered ‘flat-chested’, though I’m now at 30 years of age and actually an ‘A’ cup.

I Felt Like A Gymnast At Times!

Though I’ve never taken gymnastics, my body certainly fit the profile, 5’6”,110 lbs, a petite and toned boyish figure with breasts to match, that being nice legs and a cute butt though with ‘little’ up top, and I’m pretty much the same to this day..

Though my breasts had probably stopped growing with any size at age twelve or thirteen, my nipples on the other hand had continued to develop and had become quite large, not the areolas which are in fact relatively small, but the actual nipple itself which had become quite prominently displayed on my body (as in ‘VERY’..).

It was in fact to the point that I considered them to be an ‘abnormality’ of sorts and when in situations that would leave me exposed, gym class, showering etc., I was really self-conscious and went out of my way to cover up or hide them.

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Well I know I as a woman I have faked an orgasm. I reckon at some point in our lives most of us ladies have faked an orgasm. It is now believed that it is possible as many as one in three women is unable to achieve orgasm with their partner.

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I had an email from a lovely lady Rachael who was looking for some advice on how she could attain consistent orgasms from sexual experiences with her husband. She wrote:-

“When it comes to orgasms I have to use all my acting skills. I don’t try to be a porno star and overplay my hand. All I do is clench my muscles, hold my breath and quiver, then relax and smile”.

Yeh me too! I know exactly where Rachael is coming from and I expect that most of my readers have been in this position too. Rachael charade is not unusual. I have reported on this website surveys have shown that anywhere between 48 and 72 percent of women has faked orgasms. Rachael went on to explain in her email that in every other area of her relationship she was completely transparent with her husband.

I always advocate conversation between partners is paramount to a fulfilling sexual relationship and that Rachael in her lets say “performances” has in fact been lying to her husband. Yes it maybe shocking but it is true to say to perform in this way is to be deceitful to your husband or partner.

Now it is I guess OK to fake every now and again. Call them small white lies but if you are consistently faking an orgasm then I believe there is a problem. To fake when maybe you’re tired or just want to end sex and don’t want to let the partner down doesn’t harm the relationship.

The problem is habitual faking. I know when a women fakes an orgasm she is doing it for some one else. The thing is if you turn that on its head and think about it; then as a woman you are not faking an orgasm to make yourself happy. If you are faking all you are doing is smoothing over the cracks in your sexual life. In effect by faking you are just caressing the ego of a lover into thinking they are satisfying you sexually.

The reasoning behind why we fake it maybe due to our narrow view of sexuality and that the right way to have sex must end with a screaming orgasm. It is unsurprising that we’d rather fake than strive within restrictive parameters towards such an uncertain end.

It is habitual faking that is counter productive. It is when women who are faking all the time or very frequently because they feel under pressure to please a partner or because they themselves are reaching orgasm rarely or not at all. This situation is then made even worse because these women don’t know how to say what they want to improve things sexually.

Why Do Women Fake Orgasms?

I believe women who habitually fake are probably suffering from low sexual self-esteem and have an eroded sense of entitlement to sexual gratification. These women don’t believe they can ask their partner to help them orgasm because they would feel greedy or selfish. This is true of many women; a woman could be a strident feminist in her professional life but a lot less confident sexually. They fake and lie because they don’t feel they can ask for what they want.

It is also true to say that men may fake too. Yes I have many men also visit my website and even though a man may ejaculate he may not orgasm. Ejaculation is the functional part of sex; the propulsion of seminal fluid. The orgasm is the climactic feeling in sex.

It doesn’t matter on the gender habitual faking as opposed to occasional faking is corrosive to emotional intimacy. If the faking continues it may lead to the person who has been faking becoming resentful to their partner. They may feel bad about themselves which in turn will put strain or bring conflict to the relationship.

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The orgasm is the crowning of a successful and highly pleasurable session of sex. It puts a grin on the face of satisfied women and makes men walk with a swagger. The big “O” is the one of the most important little things in the universe and the fundamental end product of a wonderful sexual experience. If it wasn’t for the orgasm life would be a very dull existence.

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But orgasm isn't limited in scope to making one (or two) folks feel good for 5 or 10 minutes before falling asleep. Science has demonstrated that frequent sex and orgasms are vital to the general contentment and health of each person.

The more frequent the orgasm, the better off that person is going to be on both the physical and psychological planes. Everyday life results in

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tension for most of us. The troubles of responsibilities and relationships take their toll on the psychological balance of a person. Sex and orgasms are an opportunity for these tensions to be released as stress and anxiety are flushed from the system when you reach orgasm.

Therefore; the mind uses the orgasm to discharge the tensions out of the system and replace them with a relaxed body state and on a plus side incorporates pleasure. The most common thing to do after extricating yourself from the tender embrace is, naturally, to slip into sleep. The mixed effort of sex and relaxation brought by orgasm is the ideal replacement for any sleeping tablet.

Rather than reaching out for the bottle of tablets, you would be better off reaching out for the person lying in bed next to you or for a much-loved sex toy. It is a completely natural solution that should be heartily endorsed. What men also need understand is that a headache is a lady's way of saying "You have to try harder".

The pleasure brought by orgasm is the result of a discharge of endorphins into the brain. No headache can survive the attack of pleasure flooding the brain and the relaxing effect it has.

Naturally, sex isn't intended to replace dieting, but it appears to go some way toward helping you rein in those food longings and it does burn some calories. In truth, sex burns more calories per minute than tennis. The number of systematic studies shows that frequent orgasms are good for one's health. The Orgasm plays a critical role to obtain a successful sex life and also for the physical and psychological health of all men and women.

Apart from the undeniable fact that increased heart rate and heavy breathing keep the circulatory system in shape and make oxygen circulate through the body, sex has other benefits. A study made public in Psychosomatic Medication in 1976 showed clearly that failure to reach orgasm has a negative result on the heart health of ladies.

Healthy levels of oestrogen help keep the heart system in shape, fight cholesterol and keep the skin pliant. To conclude regular orgasmic experiences can truly lead to better health and well being be it from self pleasure or through love-making. What other excuse to you need?

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Some girls feel that one is sufficient and others find that their clitoris is too sensitive after their first orgasm and their just not interested in having any more. Girls unlike men on do not have a refractory period, after their first orgasm they are in the plateau stage and stay aroused for longer and if stimulation is continued more orgasms are likely. These appear as a sequence of climaxes that come close along without an interruption in arousal. For some women they may need some seconds to relax before stimulation can continue when having multiple orgasms but then an another orgasm usually occurs inside minutes.

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A likely situation for this to occur is if the clitoris is stimulated manually or orally till climax is reached, followed by another climax during intercourse.

Some girls might find that their clitoris is extraordinarily sensitive after their first orgasm.

If direct stimulation is too intense, try indirect stimulation on another part of the genitals. It would help to take deep breaths, rocking your pelvis in time with your breathing, while the energy builds up again in your genitals. Within a few minutes you could find that over stimulation will give way to pleasure. There are two types of multiple orgasms.

Sequential Multiples

These are a series of climaxes that come close together with an interruption in arousal. The woman might need a few seconds to relax and then stimulation can continue, with another orgasm occurring within minutes. A likely situation for this to happen is if the clitoris is stimulated manually or orally until climax is reached, followed by another climax during intercourse.

Some women might find that their clitoris is very sensitive after their first orgasm. If direct stimulation is too intense, try indirect stimulation on another part of the genitals. It might help to take deep breaths, rocking your pelvis in time with your breathing, while the energy builds up again in your genitals. Within a few minutes you could find that over stimulation will give way to pleasure.

Serial Multiples

These are orgasms that come one after the other without interruption in arousal. These are only seconds apart and may feel like on continuous orgasm with multiple peak points. This is likely to be achieved if the clitoris and G-Spot are being stimulated simultaneously.

Some women find that their second or third orgasms are more powerful than the first, and some find that their orgasms become progressively less intense.

In conclusion

Achieving multiple orgasms can be refreshing, exciting and even lead to an overall sense if well being for a long while after the event. A great way to get multiple orgasm is of course through self pleasure.

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The next part of this compelling drama by Dharani in the story of Annie and Sally. Will Annie ever declare her feelings or she live with her fantasies fo ever?

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Chapter 3

Part 1

Suffering all the symptoms of love sickness, Annie now relieved herself at night with long sessions of self-pleasuring alone in her bed. The Michael fantasy had entirely lost its thrill. You could say that he was dumped for another woman. Returning to him now would be like betraying Sally.

Craving only her, Annie began to create new fantasies starring Sally in the leading role. In her favourite one, Sally is an Art student and she, an English Literature student. In the fantasy as in real life, Annie has a secret crush on Sally and is just waiting for a chance to show it.

When Annie finally allows herself the long-awaited release of pleasure in reality, she is usually licking or sucking Sally into her own ecstasy in her fantasy. The main theme of all her fantasies portrays Sally as an innocent, who is curious, then aroused and pleasured by adoring Annie. 

Her favourite scenario often goes like this –

It’s Friday night and Annie goes to Sally’s dorm room to pick her up for their monthly girl’s night out. When Annie arrives, Sally is dressed, but still has to do her make-up. She’s wearing her white Capri’s, turquoise blue India gauze blouse – and nothing on underneath, of course. Her cork wedges with the red leather straps lay waiting by the door.

Annie pretends to smell alcohol in the air, which is a forbidden substance in the dorms. Teasing Sally, she sings out “Where is it?” and starts to snoop around her room. Then Annie notices a tall open bottle of water standing with Sally’s paints and brushes on her worktable next to the bed. Laughing, they both grab for it at the same time. In the struggle, the bottle, which actually does contain water, splashes out across Annie’s jeans.

In the mood for some fun, Annie dashes into the bathroom and comes out with a glass of cold water to throw on Sally. She begs her not to, but Annie douses her anyway – deliberately right across her gauze blouse. She knows Sally doesn’t wear a bra and tonight she wasn’t disappointed. The thin wet fabric shows everything Sally has – the clear outlines of her small breasts and large nipples which were now standing in hard little points under the wet fabric.

Suddenly feeling self-conscious, the jovial atmosphere turns serious as Sally half turns her back to Annie and quietly begins pulling the clinging wet blouse away from her breasts. Annie sits on the bed with her and gently pulls Sally’s hands away. “They’re beautiful Sally, don’t be shy,” she says softly.

Sally was always self-conscious of her breasts. In a soft voice she said “I’m different and it makes me feel abnormal.” “No, Sally, you’re uniquely you and you’re beautiful”, countered Annie. Let’s get out of these wet clothes; we’ll catch our death of cold.

Sitting up on her knees on Sally’s bed, Annie took the lead and pulled her wet T shirt and bra off first and threw them to the floor. Sally couldn’t take her eyes off Annie’s full plump breasts with their dark nubby nipples. Previously, the only nude women she had ever seen live were the models in her art classes, but then never so close or personal like it was now with Annie.

Annie held her hands out to help Sally pull off her wet blouse and to her surprise, she agreed. Out popped the two precious jellies, their puffy pink crowning glories now stiffened slightly into small cones and tipped delicate little pink nipples. Still feeling embarrassed, Sally hid her breasts with her hands.

To ease the situation, Annie pulled back the duvet on Sally’s bed and motioned that they should get under to warm up. They lay like spoons in the single sized bed for one, Sally’s front to Annie’s back. Annie took Sally’s hand and put it around her waist.  As she drew closer, Annie could feel the tips of her cold firm breasts as they grazed the warmth of the skin on her back.

Again, to Annie’s surprise, Sally held her hand and then squeezed it. Whispering softly in Annie’s ear she asked “Can I touch them?” Without a word, Annie guided Sally’s hand to her cool breasts.

Lying perfectly still, Sally’s hand traced their curves and gently cupped and weighed one in her hand. Annie held on to her passions. With a soft voice Sally asked, “Can I touch your nipples? They’re not like mine.” Annie quietly responded by rubbing her hand on Sally’s forearm.

Drawing her body even closer, Sally’s cool breasts now pressed into Annie, her fingers touching where they pleased. Annie longed for a loving touch from Sally and not an explorative one like she was now experiencing. Slowly rolling over onto her back, Annie pulled down the duvet to expose herself for Sally to see, making sure Sally remained covered. Annie was starting to get very wet now with the uncertain anticipation as to where this was going.

Laying on her side in the small bed against Annie, Sally ran her fingers over Annie’s nipples. Her fingertips gently traced the puckered flesh around the dark hard nubs. Gently she rubbed and tugged them between her fingers to see how big she could make them.

Softly Annie whispered, “You can suck them if you like.” Sally took her hand away. Annie thought she might have gone too far, but Sally was just mulling the idea over in her head. To Annie’s amazement, Sally leaned over her and barely took one of her hard nipples into her mouth, almost as if to taste and see if she’d like it.

Annie was about to explode. The warmth of Sally’s full lips softly on her cold dark skin, the light feeling of her suckling tongue as it curled just around her nipple drove her wild. Resisting temptation to act on her passions, Annie held her emotions in check and began to tenderly massage the back of Sally’s neck. With her other hand she guided Sally in caressing her other breast.

Sally began to respond by taking in more of Annie’s breast into her mouth. Letting go, she covered the erect nub with quick little kisses all around with an affection Annie could feel. Gently stroking Sally’s hair and face, she rested her head on Annie’s chest, caressing her on her own now.

For several minutes the lay this way, enjoying their tender touches of friendship and affection. Annie held Sally close as her hand slipped down the back of her Capri’s and over the plump cheeks of her round bottom. Slowly she stroked her smooth soft flesh.   

Relaxed now, Sally breathed deeply and began to respond. She moved her body up to bring her face closer to Annie’s and they fell naturally into a soft kiss. Their tongues lightly played with each other between wet parted lips that barely touched. This also brought her bottom closer to the thrilling touches from Annie’s gentle hand. On her own now, Sally continued to caress and tease Annie’s breast.

Her passions increasing, Sally now raised her buttocks up and slightly spread her legs to meet Annie’s gentle touches as they continued coming from behind. Stroking her fingers along the divide of her buttocks, she moved her fingers down to the wet opening of her vagina. Sally’s breath came in short little gasps from her open mouth as their tongues continued their dance between parted lips.

Annie’s fingertips wet themselves in the moisture that now pooled at the opening of Sally’s vagina as her flesh tensed. She lightly stroked the pink petal lips of her secret flesh with her slickened fingertips. All inhibition was lost now. Wanting more, Sally raised her buttocks higher and opened her legs wider to receive Annie’s tantalizing touches, hoping she would finally begin to pleasure her.

At last, Annie felt confident in touching Sally without hesitation, she could feel her body aching for more – when a small voice said, “Please Annie, I want you to touch me. Please don’t stop.” Reaching further down, Annie’s wet fingertips lightly touched Sally’s hard clitoris from below her silky mound. A soft low moan came from her open mouth as Annie gently covered it with her lips, sucking her small tongue into her mouth. Sally’s pelvis drew back from the intensity of Annie’s touch.

Annie’s fingertips returned once again to quickly but lightly ride the thick loose flesh of Sally’s long clit shaft. With several well placed flicks across her hard bare clit head, the flesh now stood erect from between the full lips of her pussy. Sally’s pelvis was frozen in mid air and her body trembled from arousal.

A few firmer teasing touches along the edge of her clit hood made Sally’s body slightly sway. She had begun to suck and fondle Annie’s breasts without reservation. Annie slowed her strokes to cool Sally off and to prolong the moment. Sally’s body shuddered, sucking harder and nibbling at Annie’s nipples in her desperation to spur Annie on.

Annie was thoroughly excited now herself, but this first time was for Sally, who now began to rock her pelvis to encourage her fingers to touch her again. Instead, Annie’s hand cupped the full flesh of Sally’s pussy and gently massaged it.

Passionately Sally began to kiss Annie to arouse her into finishing what she’d started. She softly whined into Annie’s mouth and held her tighter and kissed her harder. Finally giving in, Annie spread the thick lips of her pussy and began to tease her wet clit with light rapid touches along her hard shaft.

With a gasp, Sally pulled her mouth from Annie’s and she buried her face in her neck. Now it was time to give Sally what she craved. Applying firm steady strokes, Annie’s fingertip rode the soft thick flesh over Sally’s hard clit shaft. Moaning into her neck, Sally’s pelvis arched from the intensity of the rippling sensations. Annie’s firm fingertip went back to its mark and continued working Sally’s frenzied flesh.

Oh! I’m going to come! I’m going to come! Easy, gently please! I’m going to come! Touch me gently! Gently please! Annie gave Sally the pause in the action that she wanted. She was breathing very heavily now and her body was taught. Annie’s finger left Sally’s hard throbbing clit shaft to take a quick dip in her pool again. Coming back up, she softly rubbed back Sally’s clit hood and gently rubbed the smooth nub of her bare clit head.  

Locked in a kiss, Sally began to breathe quick and deep as her wet flesh gave a little spasm under Annie’s finger and she burst into orgasm. Annie held her finger firmly over the length of Sally’s clit to feel the pulse of excitement as it rolled through her trembling flesh. Annie held her until she stopped shuddering and then gently laid her back on the bed.

Sally’s arm lay across her eyes while her body still heaved and tingled with orgasmic pleasure. Her small breasts were in full attention, the puffiness of her nipples now pulled up into tightly tipped cones.

Reaching over to Sally’s work table Annie grabbed a large sable paint brush. She lightly teased her tender breasts, nipples, ribs, hips and trembling belly. Annie’s body in its heightened state squirmed under the foreign touch of the soft bristles.

Then Annie dipped the brush into the bottle of water on the table. With the wet sable brush Annie painted Sally’s tender breasts and nipples into tight little points as she threw her hand down over her mouth to stifle her squeals. Then she ran the wet brush down Sally’s belly. The bed squeaked as she jumped from the sensations. Dipping the brush again into the cold water, Annie painted a cool wet line down Sally’s hot clit. Sally spread her legs wide for more.

When she couldn’t bear the teasing brush strokes on her quivering flesh a moment longer she begged Annie to make her come again. That was all Annie wanted to hear. She kissed Sally’s hips and belly and moved down and gently nibbled her mound as her thumbs pulled back her thick lips, fully baring her long clitoris. The feeling of the cold air on her exposed secret flesh gave her a rush.

Sally teased her own nipples while Annie’s lips and hot tongue gently sucked her hard clit shaft, sending her body into shudders of sexual tension all over again. Annie could feel her clit throb and grow under her tongue with each lick. It took just a few well placed flicks of her firm tongue tip to send Sally over the edge again.

A small shriek escaped from her mouth as Sally’s body convulsed with another explosion and her hands held her small breasts tight. Sally lay still now, her breathing shallow and shaky as Annie’s lips remained in a kiss on Sally’s spent wet flesh. 

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The Last Two Hotspots

Ladies we have covered the clitoris and the G-Spot. There are two more “erotic zones” that have been recorded. They aren’t that widely known about but knowledge of them can add even more variety to our self-pleasure time.

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The first of these “erotic zones” is a small area of highly sensitive erectile tissue located just above and both sides of the urethral sponge. It is given the name the U-Spot.

The U-Spot

The U-spot has only been recently discovered but has been found by researchers to give an unexpected and highly erotic response when stimulated correctly. It can be for self-pleasure purposes stimulated by a lubricated finger and within love making with a tongue or penis. Please note the U-spot is not the urethral opening, but just above and either side of it.

Your fingers play a crucial role in stimulating every part of your body. When using fingers to stimulate the U-spot, simply slip the fingers in gently above the clitoris, at the opening of the vagina. Do not apply too much pressure because every part of the vagina is sensitive and should be handled with care.

The U-spot with a little experimentation can become a treasured part of the women sexual being as the pleasure from caressing it can be euphoric.

The AFE Zone

The last erotic zone we will talk about is the AFE Zone. Researchers investigating vaginal dryness with Magnetic Resonance Imaging found that when the penis head stimulated certain areas of the vagina Subjects experienced wave after wave of intense pleasure resulting in orgasm climaxes. The results were similar to but more intense than G-Spot stimulation. Sliding the fingers up the front vagina wall you find a rough oval area of ridges.

Your Are Looking For The Fornix

Sliding the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall. This is the AFE Zone. This roughness creates the friction and increases the pleasure sensations in both vagina and penis nerves.

The AFE zone is a vortex of the nerves that carry information from your whole genital to the spinal cord and brain. These nerves when stimulated send arousal signals to the part of your nervous system which enhances engorgement of appropriate areas and is responsible for sexual arousal.

This is also true for women that are not normally sexually responsive. Obviously the easiest way to locate the AFE zone is to slide the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area than the G-Spot, which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall.

Conclusion

These two zones the U-spot and AFE zone are areas of the female genitalia that are still new to researchers and the sex toy market has yet to really make toys to cater to these pleasure areas. However, with lubricated finger(s) and a little experimentation a girl could really have some fun.

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The G-Spot

There is still an argument over whether the g-spot really exists. A gynaecologist Dr. Jones Stewart on concluding his study wrote in an article for Times Magazine in 1983 that women that had the area supposedly contained the g-spot, surgically removed reported no loss of sensation.

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The belief of the general public though is that the g-spot is a reality with one study concluding that 84% of women believing that there is a “highly sensitive area” in the vagina. Modern day publishing discuss the g-spot as if it a medical truth.

The g-spot or Grafenberg Spot (named after its discoverer, a German gynaecologist called Ernst Grafenberg) is a small highly sensitive area located 5-8cm (2-5 inches) inside the vagina on the front upper wall. The g-spot is said to be the female equivalent of the male prostate gland. Women have even found they ejaculate a fluid if they have an orgasm by stimulation of the g-spot, researchers in North America claim the fluids composition is similar to the secretion of the prostate gland.

The g-spot is located beneath the urethral sponge. This explains why many women feel they have to pee when their g-spot is stimulated with every woman having a urethral sponge then every woman must have a g-spot.

The mystery around the g-spot can be partly explained by the common misconception surrounding it. It modern parlance many women believe the g-spot to be a “sex button” that can be pressed like a starter button, at anytime to cause an erotic explosion. Then as a result during love-making when this is the case and an erotic explosion does not appear leads many women to believe that the g-spot doesn’t exist. The g-spot mystery continues I believe because of a lack of understanding of the g-spot. The g-spot should be considered more as an “erotic zone” as Grafenberg himself described it.

I think many women who claim not to enjoy or notice g-spot stimulation are more then likely not using the correct technique or using sufficiently firm pressure on it so that the g-spot is being stimulated. First though us girls have to locate the g-spot and don’t worry many women find it difficult to locate the g-spot.

Locating the G-Spot

The g-spot is a bean shaped group of nerves tissues located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and position of the g-spot differs from women to women, but it is usually about the size of a quarter, and lies 2-3 inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. Women sometimes cannot find their own g-spot. Here are some tips to help all women.

Technique for Finding the G-Spot

Right ladies make sure you are relaxed and comfortable and plenty of time set aside to give your time to explore and experiment.

• Girls lay down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed with a small pillow under your buttocks.

• Then insert your lubricated fingers into your vagina towards your navel about 2 inches inside your vagina.

• Press with either one or two fingers against the front wall of your vagina applying a little more pressure than usual, as the g-spot is surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall.

• Move your fingers from side to side until you start to feel when that you are hitting the right spot. It should feel ridged unlike the rest of the vagina that is smooth. It will then as a result through stimulation swell and firm like the erectile tissue in a penis.

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How to Self-Pleasure Yourself to a G-Spot Orgasm

First of all please empty your bladder before self-love as women do get a feeling to urinate when the g-spot is first stimulated as we recorded earlier.

Girls to directly stimulate the g-spot lay on your back with your feet flat on the floor with your legs apart. Using the thumb of one hand start stimulating the clitoris, then girls slowly insert two finger as far as possible into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening until, pressuring upward with the tips of your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are more sharply upwards your can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vagina walls.

To increase the pleasure thrust your hand in and out simulating penis intercourse then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the g-spot is involved. If you want to really get yourself all hot a bothered remember to stimulate the clitoris as well or use the other hand to touch other erotic zones such as the nipples.

What to Remember When Stimulating the G-Spot

• Women need firm pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm and friction to have g-spot orgasms.

• Women may ejaculate a small amount of a white clear fluid when she has a g-spot orgasm.

• Please be careful girls and short nail are recommended.

• It may help to use a water based lubricant and wash you hands thoroughly with hot soapy water afterwards.

G-Spot Tips

Variety is the spice of life so experiment with using smooth, round beads placed in the fingertips of some latex gloves (use a water based lubricant because oil based lubes break down latex gloves) to provide more intense sensations when the hand is inserted into the vagina.

Another extra tip that isn’t do to with self-pleasure but I though I would like to add is to say rear-entry/doggy position is the best during intercourse to stimulate the g-spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on the top and a pillow beneath the hips.

The G-Spot Conclusion

The g-spot really does exist and with only a little patience and experimentation any girl can soon understand the power and excitement that g-spot stimulation can accomplish. There are techniques that involve using a dildo to simulate the penis in vaginal intercourse that really can be fun when self-pleasuring concentrating on the g-spot. Using the dildo instead of your fingers as in the methods explained above.

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The Guide – How To Get My First Orgasm

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Dear Reader,

Welcome to self pleasure for women and sorry to my older readers that I haven’t worked on self pleasure for women for a while. I hope to post a lot about self pleasure in the coming months and today will be concentrating on breast and nipple play.

Breasts what wonderful creations they are. Breast and nipple play by women can be a great way to change the self-pleasure routine. Breasts are perfectly designed to bring pleasure to women and it just takes a bit of practice to maximise the enjoyment and lead to some great orgasms.

I have put together the article below after receiving email requests from women who wanted get the most from her breasts and nipples through nipple play.

It Does't Matter About Nipple Or Breast Size

Remember girls it doesn’t matter what shape, size colour your breasts are but take into account that every breast is different and some women like a lot of stimulation whilst others may get aroused with the slightest of touches.

It is just key to remember to get the most from any breast session to by symmetrical by either playing with both breasts at one time or giving equal time to both.

Here We Go Girls – Our Nipple Play Guide

1. Begin slowly working on your own breasts and be very gentle. You can start or example brushing the palms of your hands over the whole of the breast in a soft circular motion. It is a great way to learn the contours of your breast and a good time to listen to your body and just enjoy the sensations you are feeling.

If you want to kick up the play a notch then why not add massage oil which will keep everything feeling nice and smooth and be gently warming on the breast.

2. Once you are starting to feel good then work yourself into a rhythm by repeating moves several times and being consistent. If you are working in a clockwise motion, do that on both breasts.

Or try this move: place your palm over the entire breast (with the nipple in the centre of your palm). Fan out your fingers as if they're the spokes of a wheel.Now bring them in toward the nipple and finish off with a slight pinch. Then repeat.

3. Remember to listen to you body at all times. Remembering to pay attention to what feels good and experiment a little and repeating what feels good to you. This can for some women be where possible sucking her won breasts comes into play.

It may sound strange but if you are getting hot then why not go with the flow.

• Begin with small licks or even blowing on and around your breasts working towards the nipple itself.
• Gradually transition from licking to sucking and even up to biting if you want.
• Then play around with what feels good from hot breath, licking, sucking and just caressing.

Nipple Play Is All About Experimentation

Breast play like all self-pleasure is all about the individual you can even experiment with temperature from hot massage oil to the coldness of ice-cubes. It is all up to how far you can let your imagination run.

This article is strictly about nipple play but the same rules apply as I have spoken about other self pleasure techniques about making sure you give yourself plenty of time and using your imagination to fanaticize whilst practising self-love.

How about this wonderful nipple play idea, and I have tried it myself. It was fairly delightful, although I require something a little more intense. Here is what I was worked for me:-

Remove your upper body clothing and nothing more so you will not distract yourself with lower temptations! This is all about the nipples ladies!

Next gently run your finger tips over your breasts, avoiding the nipple areas, for five minutes.

You may want to grab hold of your nipples and twist! But please hold back and wait!

After the five minutes, your breasts should start to tingle and your nipples become very erect. Then you are allowed to touch them, but only with gentle strokes of motion.

Now is when your vagina will actually start to crave some attention, but its urges have to be suppressed with nipple pinching urges! Keep playing with your nipples for ten minutes.

Finally! Some pain! For three minutes squeeze and twist your nipples repeatedly, while occasionally pinching the nipples and rest of the breasts.

Your nipples will of course enjoy the attention more, so very little of the three will probably be spent on the rest of the breast.

Now the final step… my dear readers! Clips on the nipples for five minutes! This can be binder clips or cloth pins. What ever you choose and it should be a painfully delicious sensation!

Nipple Play – It Can Be Great Fun

The overall affect it a wonderful build up of sensations and you will really be hot and horny and have great fun.  Just concentrating on the breasts and nipples and suppressing the urge to move own below can be a rewarding and fun filled experience and one that I can personally recommend. In fact I was only doing the above just yesterday after being reminded of the fun of breast play from the reader who asked for this request.

Well ladies why not give those breast a little attention and even pass this information onto your partners who can give your wonderful breasts the attention they truly deserve. They can really lead some wondeful orgasms.

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