The dildo is an object that should be talked about much more openly as it can have a great many benefits to the both the individual and the couple. Love aids come in all shapes and sizes and it maybe hard to choose which one works for whoever is concerned.

Setting aside though for a moment the wealth of choice when purchasing a dildo we should explore why purchasing a sex toy is a good idea.

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A dildo can be used in many ways as it can be used to stimulate both partners in the couple through gentle use of pressure/insertion on different parts of the anatomy. Irrespective of which type of self-love is involved the act of masturbation allows an individual to explore by themselves what they like and how they like it. When a person is self pleasuring they are in a comfortable setting and often have the time to explore their own body. Using a dildo is an extension of this with a woman for example being able to learn how to get reach different types of orgasm. Through gentle exploration and with time a woman can learn all aspects of what allows her to climax with the most pleasure.

This then can be relayed to a partner who then can use that information to then make sure that the needs of the partner are met which leads to better love-making all-round with everybody happy.

Speaking of couples it is also true that the exploration doesn’t have to be done alone. Dildos can be used as part foreplay or aid sex to allow both couples to get the most from the love-making process.

A couple who slowly want to be come aroused could use the gentle vibrations of a silicone dildo that feels great and also keeps body heat to stimulate one another. On a sensitive part of the body a love aid allows the partner to very gently excite the area without applying to much pressure.

The use of a dildo in love making can take the pressure of a man to perform all the time and he can still satisfy his partner whilst both couples can have fun. Dildos are great for both self-pleasure and also as an aid to sex and should be part of any couples sex life. Yes dildos can benefit a couple’s sex life.

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The three main aspects of buying a dildo are shape, material and colour. A woman wants something that looks and feels good. Most dildos are made of rubber. Even with rubber there are different types with jelly rubber being quite popular and coming in interesting colours.

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Hard plastic dildos are inflexible and many women just don’t like the feel of them. If women use these then it is often only for short periods of time. I would suggest that hard plastic is really only for more experienced dildo users.

When buying a dildo really think about what you want from them and it is better to start a little smaller rather that go for one too big. Dildos aren’t cheap and they are certainly not returnable.

If you are new to sex toys then buying an inexpensive jelly rubber dildo maybe he ideal starting point; this way you can find out what shape and size suits you for a small outlay. Then when you know what makes you happy then treat yourself to a silicone dildo or something more expensive but more life like.

Silicone dildos are at the expensive end of the market but are of the highest quality available and I would highly recommend them if you budget can stretch that far. The reasons that silicone is so highly thought of is due to:

• Silicone in non-porous and can be boiled in water (great for hygiene purposes)

• Silicone transmits vibrations well and holds temperature (is feels great when you are in the flow of things)

• Silicone is available in a wide range of colours, shapes and sizes (Girls the dildo has to look and feel good)

• Silicone is strong, durable and clean

Silicone is the ideal choice if you are concerned about allergies or reacting to toys in a different way. Technology has moved on now and you can also get dildos that feel very realistic (like cyberskin dildos but cleaner and safer).

Silicone dildos usually start at around $20 (£10) to about $100 (£50), although they can be a lot more expensive. This is expensive for a dildo but you are paying for a superior product.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic Dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Cyberskin Dildo
• Harness dildo

There are more types to follow! Remember the Silicone Dildo too!

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Self-pleasure can be greatly incresed by finding yourself a good dildo girls. Dildo use is pretty wide spread and a recent survey in a monthly glossy magazine reported that 20% of young professional women between the ages of 24 and 35 carry a dildo with all of the time. Self-pleasure and dildos are a match made in heaven.

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What is a dildo?

Choosing a Dildo is very important under taking. It is an object that you are going to get very intimate with. Picking a dildo that is right for you involves three main points of consideration:-

1. Picking a dildo material that works and feels right for you
2. How the dildo is going to be used
3. The right shape, size, and color of your dildo it has to be appealing

There are many different types of dildo to choose from with different materials, sizes and shape. At self-pleasureforwomen.com we will attempt to cover all the different types of dildo on the market in the hope it will help you to get the right one for you.

Here are a list of the different dildo types on the market. Click on each seperate link below to get an in depth explanation of each dildo, how they are used, how to look after them and what type of women they are most suited too.

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Cyberskin Dildo
• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic dildo
• Harness dildo

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Ok girls soon my website self pleasure for women we have discussed the benefits of using a dildo, how to choose a dildo however ladies unless you know how to use a sex toy you will never really truly feel the real benefits of the love-aid. As a result I have decided to put together a guide here to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience. It is not a step by step guide but will point you in the right direction.

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Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it very important to lubricate up. It is a common fallacy that a woman own natural lubricant will suffice, in fact quite often many materials of penetrative toys actually can absorb the women lubricant. Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital that she uses a lot of lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction that may need to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a dildo before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones. If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals that help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting tightness and tenderness. Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give the time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion. Remember that it is your toy girls you are in control and play around with your dildo. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals and your dildo then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then penetrate it really is a lot of fun.

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again, let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric). Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you. Remember girls practice makes perfect and the more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean you dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water, commercial sex toy cleaner or sterilize it (many dildo are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse you dildo and make sure it is properly dried. Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry, store in a dry and at room temperature. Then storing in a soft material in a drawer will be fine. Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged by faulty dildo. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

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Now used a general term for dildos that feel very soft and using the most up to date technology have a life like skin feel to them. Cyberskin dildos are made to feel as realistic as possible in weight and density of a real penis as well as in the overall outer skin feel.

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Cyberskin was a brand name of a particular dildo but now describes all dildos that have a soft outside but a stiff core that simulates a penis so well. The reality of the Cyberskin dildo is not everyone cup of tea. The whole idea for some women is to experience something different and they go for other types of dildo such as the jelly rubber dildo. If though you are going for realism then the Cyberskin dildo fits the bill like no other.

The are problems with the Cyberskin dildo in that they are not very durable and hygienically not easy to keep clean due to the fact that to make them feel realistic they are made of porous materials. It is hard to clean them properly and cannot be sterilised like silicone dildos.

It is due to this porous nature that those that do decide to purchase a Cyberskin dildo also use a condom to keep them clean (although this obviously takes a little away from the pleasure of the realistic feel).

It also recommended that you use only water based lubricants when using the Cyberskin dildos because other lubricants could harm the soft surface of the dildo.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic Dildo
• Harness dildo

There are more types to follow!

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Double ended dildos otherwise known as double dongers are manufactured for simultaneous double penetration. They are designed for both vaginal and anal penetration and can be used by men and women.

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The best double dongers and the ones I would recommend are made of silicone and have a curve to them that facilitates greater movement and physical closeness. There are cheaper alternative double ended dildos that are made of jelly rubber. The cheaper ones don’t feel as comfortable and are require you to wear a condom to ensure hygienic safety (silicone dildos can be boiled between uses).

Double dongers often require some imagination and patience. They can be great fun in the bedroom but it requires practice to find a rhythm and technique that works for the individual/couple (warning it will be awkward at first but please have patience). Double ended dildos can also be used by the individual with the other end making a great handle when being used for penetration.

It must be noted that many double dongers are used with a harness in mind where they provide penetration for the person wearing the harness and for the individual on the receiving end.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic Dildo
• Harness dildo

There are more types to follow!

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Many women are now discovering the delights of dildos for anal use. They are great for couple play as the woman can take the dominant role whilst the man can play the recieving role and get turned on by the act of submission. Dildos for anal use can also be used for self-pleasure if positioned well a woman can use the dildo by herself and open up a whole new world.

Dildos for anal use must be picked very carefully for safety reasons. The three main criteria to look for are:-

• The dildo must have no seems
• The dildo should have any sharp edges or corners
• The dildo should have a wide flare base to make sure that dildo doesn’t slip into the rectum.

Most people believe that dildos are made with vaginal penetration in mind but as long the dildo has the above requirements then it should be safe to use anally.

If you are purchasing a dildo for both anal and vaginal penetration then you will need to use a condom on the dildo to stop the transmission of diseases. Otherwise we recommend you buy a silicone dildo and ensure you boil it in water between uses vaginally or anally.

Anal dildos are designed to be smaller and start small at the tip gradually getting larger. The dildo as long as it is smooth and has a wide flare base then it should be fine.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic Dildo
• Harness dildo

There are more types to follow!

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Harness dildos have slowly made their way into mainstream consciousness. The first time a woman straps on a fully equipped harness dildo maybe a comical site. For any women it certainly a novel experience looking between her thighs and seeing a penis looking back at her. It is crucial to get used to it so walking around in the harness dildo for a while will soon allow you to become comfortable with it.

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A harness dildo isn’t about substitution of the penis but allows couples to bring new ideas and techniques into their love-making for both partners to enjoy. It can allow the woman in a straight/gay relationship to feel the power for the first time as she lives out a fantasy of control through anal penetration. For a male who is anally penetrated it can live out a fantasy of submission. The whole idea of the harness dildo is to open up the bedroom to experimentation and this leads to great fun.

If you feel a dildo and dildo harness maybe ideal for you then I would suggest three different criteria that you may want to look out for when considering the right one:-

• The dildo needs to have a wide flare base (for safety if things get a bit heated).
• Check the dildo is firm and flexible enough for harness use.
• The dildo has at least average penis size i.e. at least 5.5 inches

When you are considering a harness dildo you don’t need to use the whole length but a short dildo can be very frustrating as you may end up not getting the desired penetration that you and your partner want. Firmer dildos are recommended for harness use. The ideal dildo is the silicone dildo if they are affordable.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Cyberskin Dildo
• Glass, Metal, Plastic/Acrylic Dildo

There are more types to follow!

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Chosing a Dildo – Choosing From the "Hard Dildos"

There are several materials that are used to make what we call hard dildos. The materials used are mainly metal dildos, glass dildos and acrylic/plastic dildos. They are generally at the higher end of the market as regards to price. The reason being is that they are often made by artisans rather than mass produced in a factory.

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These dildos really do have a following among women because of the feel and firmness of them. They do not give or bend and therefore when used in the right manner offer an intense stimulation and are great for G-spot stimulation (it is a great way to achieve an unbelievable orgasm) or when used for penetration putting pressure on an internal point that a woman find pleasurable.

A hard dildo though is not for everyone because it maybe too intense with the dildo not having any give, I would not recommend this type of dildo for someone new to sex toy use. It would be something that could be experimented with after using a jelly rubber dildo first. The price also makes these dildos appropriate for a more advanced user.

Here is a list of the different dildos on the market as I write this post:-

• Silicone dildo
• Jelly Rubber Dildo
• Cyberskin Dildo
• Harness dildo

There are more types to follow!

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