I Have Done My Research

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After researching some of the sites online offering devices to increase the sensitivity as well as the ‘size’ of the nipples, he surprised me with a set of cylinders and pump to begin pumping them (vacuum pumping).

It’s not as if I had no sensitivity in my nipples, and they were certainly not ‘small’, but my husband in his infinite wisdom (and ‘devious’ nature) decided that it would be fun and interesting to see just how much ‘more so’ things could be enhanced in the interest of a bit of added sexual excitement.

After A Bit of Experimentation

After trying them and with a bit of experimenting the results were so dramatic, not just with the increased sensitivity but the ‘visual’ aspect of them becoming so much larger and ‘longer’, it became something we rather quickly got into, ‘especially’ for foreplay.

The increased sensitivity (beyond words!!) and size made any attention given to them much more intensified and would easily have me aroused (‘getting off’) in short order. As you can imagine this made pumping them not at all hard to get into.

I Have More Than One Set

I now have three different sets of cylinders at different sizes but have found the 5/8” and ¾” to be the most ‘pleasing’ and effective for my own anatomy. And as I mentioned on the site, these can also be used on another ‘especially sensitive’ part of the female anatomy as well, with ‘mind numbing’ results, meaning one’s ‘clit’. ‘OMG’…, but that’s for another time!

I generally pump them in the mornings just after showering  when I can leave the cylinders attached to my nipples while I’m getting ready for work, which is sometimes about a good forty minutes or so with a few ‘breaks’ in between.

How They Work

Each cylinder has a ‘check valve’ so that once it is pumped to one’s desired level it can be disconnected from the pump to give one freedom to move around without it. If it’s for a sexual encounter, or if I’m really feeling naughty before going out for an evening, a party etc. with the prospect of showing them off in a revealing little top, I will usually pump them for 15 or twenty minutes.

Which is all that is now necessary to have my nipples ‘super swollen and erect’, with it lasting all evening and with them ‘OMG’, more ‘sensitive’ than you can imagine!! Just the fabric of my thin top constantly rubbing against them is enough to make me ‘wet’…!!

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With his past few visits it has in fact become pretty ‘hot’..  Just to give one some idea as to how ‘much’..  Our ‘play-fighting’ and subsequent ‘wrestling’ has had me on more than one occasion being stripped naked by my boss with him lying on top of me on the grass and just short of him actually fucking me.

And  ‘YES’…, he’s ‘much’ bigger than my husband! Being ‘rock’ hard and with only the thin fabric of the shorts he was wearing separating us he was rather enjoying making me feel every ‘detail’. In talking about it my husband shared that he’d love to watch me take it a bit further which certainly wouldn’t be difficult, that is allow him to actually fuck me.

I Haven’t Exactly Said No

I didn’t exactly say “no” which I knew would turn him on. I know all too well what he likes. For my husband it’s the biggest turn on, as he’s standing there watching it all, and for myself I can’t help but find it all pretty hot and exciting (‘very’…!!).

It has been several weeks since we’ve had him over and though it hasn’t happened. I see him (my boss) every day at work which has me thinking some pretty naughty thoughts about his weekend visits more than I care to admit.

With my husband knowing that I’m now a bit more ‘open’ to his naughty suggestion, he’s also been bringing it up with suggestive scenarios quite regularly during sex, which ultimately has us both talking rather ‘explicitly’ about me sucking and fucking my boss in the naughtiest ways.

Lunch Has Become Almost a Daily Thing

My boss has also been taking me to lunch nearly every day, where I have to confess that I’ve been allowing him to have a bit of ‘fun’ on the ride to and from the restaurant. He has a small little sports car that sits quite low to the ground and it has a pretty ‘cramped’ interior, with both the driver and passenger seat situated quite close to each other. Just to give one some idea, when his hand is on the shift knob he’s almost touching my knee!

Not only is it difficult to climb in and out of, but it makes riding in it in a short skirt with any kind of modesty almost out of the question, as it has my ass buried in the seat which has my skirt constantly riding up, and it’s already pretty short to begin with!

It Can All Be Quite Revealing

With him sitting so closely, it goes without saying he can easily look over and see right up my skirt. I know how much it turns him on and of course I’m fully aware that I’m not always being so ‘careful’ with how I’m sitting, which makes it all extra naughty, especially when I’m not wearing panties! He has made a few advances in the past while driving in his car as in touching my bare thigh and at times a bit ‘more’, though I’ve always stopped him before things got too carried away.

As of late I’ve been allowing it which has him taking the ‘long’ way back to work, as well as driving much more ‘slowly’. I must admit I’ve been enjoying our lunches! As you may have guessed, my husband loves hearing about it. He gets so turned on with me sharing some of the details he encourages me with such behavior all the more. Our weekends have been pretty busy of late, but with things easing up I’ve been thinking it just might be time to plan another barbeque with just the ‘three’ of us.

God knows my husband can hardly wait..

I Hope You Don’t Mind My Sharing This

I may be sharing a bit much here involving some of the dynamics of our relationship. I know many will read into this; what they want, but in regards to this I don’t take things further than any boundaries my husband and I have set and agreed upon, which keeps things open and honest as well as fun and exciting for the both of us.

I Have Though About a Boob Job

I’ve certainly had thoughts about implants, in fact some of my friends have had them with some pretty good results, but I’ve learned to love my body just the way it is. Also my husband loves my breasts as they are as well as my rather ‘large’ nipples.

If you’ve read my comments on this site you know that they have for me actually become by far one of the most erotic pleasure zones on my body. My husband is rather adventurous with all things sexual when it comes to suggesting and trying different things to spice up our sex life, and as I’ve since come to find out, there are ‘plenty’ of devices/methods to bring an untold amount of pleasure to one’s nipples, which can if one is open to exploring really heat up one’s sex play!

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My Boss IS A Big Guy

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He’s a big guy and much bigger than my husband (‘ in more ways than one’) almost to the point of being a bit intimidating, and he easily overpowers me, meaning anything he would ‘really’ want to do to me, there would be no stopping him.

It usually starts not long after he arrives, with a bit of playful slapping, and then gradually escalates more and more throughout the evening till it becomes a lot more ‘physical’ in nature and probably closer to actual ‘wrestling’.

With what little I’m wearing and especially my short little skirt and no ‘panties’, as you might imagine it makes his  little ‘assaults’ rather easy to carry out. And needless to say he’s ‘really’ turned on with it, with him breathing heavily and wanting to totally molest me in every possible way.

Alcohol Makes Me Feel Naughty

After more than a few margaritas which have gone straight to my head, I’m feeling pretty naughty and into it, especially with all his relentless ‘grabbing’ between my legs with his big ‘probing’ fingers, which ultimately has me soaking ‘wet’ and pretty hot and turned on.

By this time as you might imagine he’s also pretty worked up and ultimately grabbing at what little I’m wearing and trying to rip it off. His first target is always the string of my little bikini top, which with one well placed grab at the string he all too easily rips it off me in a matter of a few seconds.

My Boss Is a Determined Fellow

Throughout the evening I’m usually having to put it back on ‘several’ times! Of course I’m well aware that all my slapping, kicking and fighting (including smacks/kicks to his balls) does little to stop him and just turns him on all the more and making him all the more determined.

Upon seeing us really getting into it, my husband will conveniently excuse himself to go to the restroom or into the kitchen to make more margaritas and deliberately take his time, and leaving us totally alone in a remote part of our house or backyard. Of course my boss takes full advantage, and knowing I’m already pretty hot and turned on and literally ‘soaking’ with my juices, directs all of his attentions between my legs, easily slipping his probing fingers up inside me. And though I’m all the while slapping him, I have to confess at the same time it all has me so ‘hot’ it has him nearly making me ‘come’!

Though guised as being all in fun, I’m well aware from the start where it’s headed, with it becoming naughtier as the evening goes on. My husband loves encouraging it, and not just me but also my boss. Let’s just say he’s well aware of my husband’s permissive attitude and more than ready to take it as far as he can.

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We Still Managed To Keep Things Business at Work

Strange as it may seem, the things going on at our home with my boss hadn’t at all affected things at my work, at least not in a negative way. And though there were ‘references’ made, giving evidence that it was very much right beneath the surface, we didn’t really talk about it and carried on business as usual which under the circumstances we were both happy to do.

My boss had rather quickly become somewhat of a regular at our house on the weekends. I knew my husband was enjoying the way I would dress, which was pretty ‘minimal’, being always a super short little denim skirt and no panties that I could barely bend over in, not to mention a ‘revealing’ top, which was more often than not, a barely there, little string bikini top that would have my nipples clearly displayed.

The Alcohol Would Flow

When he (my boss) would come over my husband would deliberately keep the margaritas flowing to dull my inhibitions as well as encourage me to be ‘bad’…. as in ‘very’ naughty….. One of his absolute favorite things is me being a little cock-tease for other men, especially when sitting in short skirts (and no panties) at restaurants, parties, etc, not to mention my ‘work’. He loves it and I have to confess that I find it exciting. As you might imagine, being in the privacy of our home makes such naughty behavior that much easier to get into. My little skirt would be so short, there’s really no way I can sit in it without exposing myself in some way, and when we’d all be seated around our fire pit with my boss all too conveniently sitting across from me (which my husband had carefully orchestrated), I would totally indulge him, casually opening my legs and exposing my bare shaved pussy which would be driving my boss crazy.

As you might imagine, this only served to enhance any of the horseplay that was going on between us with my boss becoming much more aggressive, with him grabbing my ass and a lot ‘more’, and all in full view of my husband. Of course in response I would begin slapping him for his little assaults on my body and our little ‘fight’ would be on.

My Husband Loved All of This and It Turned Me on Too

Of course my husband loves it and I must admit that I’ve found it rather exciting, and now when he comes over I actually find myself a bit aroused just with the anticipation of it, as it has over time escalated to some ‘play fighting’/wrestling between us.

Which of course my boss who is a already a walking hard-on and wanting to fuck me senseless is more than happy to initiate, as it provides him with plenty of ‘touching’ and ‘grabbing’ in places I don’t need to mention, with it ultimately becoming pretty ‘naughty’.

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We Have Quite a Private Backyard

We have a pretty private backyard, which makes going along with my husband’s suggestions regarding what I wear not at all difficult. Knowing my boss I knew he certainly wasn’t going to mind, and I went along with my husband’s request, though I’ve certainly been known to do a few things on my own without his encouragement.

In spite it being my boss, or perhaps ‘because’ of it, I found myself indulging my husband even a bit more than I think he’d anticipated. And needless to say, my boss was enjoying every minute and practically drooling at seeing me so barely dressed.

My Choice Was “Risqué”…..

I’d worn an especially revealing, ‘barely-there’ little top which had my erect nipples ‘well’ exposed, and a super ‘short’ little denim mini and very little ‘else’, which means ‘no panties’, which of course my husband always encouraged.

We had him over that weekend, and we all had such good time my husband had me invite him the following weekend. My boss was enjoying our hospitality, not to mention the eye candy I was more than generously providing him.

He had also rather quickly picked up on my husband’s rather permissive and liberal attitude with regards to his wife, meaning ‘me’, and he saw that he didn’t at all mind him being more than a bit friendly with me even with my husband watching.

Things Started To Get Hotter and Hotter

By the following weekend, upon coming over he was even much more relaxed around both me and my husband, and I was also enjoying his company, a ‘lot’.. And things gradually got a bit more ‘interesting’, if not a bit ‘hotter’…

My boss and I both have a bit of a ‘touchy feely’ nature. God knows I hug and kiss everyone when it comes to greetings and goodbyes, though it’s no secret that my boss enjoys it in a much naughtier way where I’m concerned.

This had graduated to a bit of horseplay that had begun to go on between us which would happen when either of us would walk by. It was no secret that though being ‘playful’, it was laced with sexual tension.

My Husband Encouraged It

And naturally my husband saw it as something he could encourage, and would create situations that made it rather easy for us to get into it. He was also encouraging me to have as much ‘fun’ as I wanted when around my boss, and of course I knew very well what he meant.

He was basically giving me the freedom to do whatever I wanted with my boss when he was at our home, and I was enjoying it, but I wasn’t quite sure just how far I wanted to take it. It hadn’t escaped my mind that we saw quite a bit of each other every day.

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I Am Proud OF Who I Am and Glad To Show It

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I’m always shopping for the hottest clothes and the sexiest shoes which he loves. Adding to this, he loves me looking hot and showing off my body for other men. This is true especially at my work, where he loves me wearing short little skirts and dresses that drive my horny boss crazy, with him regularly taking me to lunch as well as making passes whenever he can get away with it.

He also loves me participating in “no panty Friday’s”. It’s soo-o-o-o ‘ naughty’!! And I must admit that it has me inclined on occasion to exhibit a bit of suggestive behavior when sitting at my desk, as well as in other situations, going to ‘lunch’ with my boss etc. Subsequently on Fridays needless to say my boss is usually spending a lot more time with me, not to mention taking me to ‘lunch’.

…..And There Is More

I’m going out on a limb here, but over the past year or so and especially when it’s ‘warm’, we’ve also been having him (my boss) over forbarbeques and margaritas with it being just the three of us. I had invited him before for parties at our house where there were several guests, but it was my husband’s suggestion that we have him over exclusively.

I had shared with my husband some time ago that I had liked him, in fact from the day I started working in his office there was something about him that turned me on. It was just conversation and in sharing it with my husband I wasn’t at the time suggesting anything of a sexual nature.

Attractive In a More “Unconventional” Way

He’s not the best looking guy but there’s definitely something about him that I find incredibly attractive. Being that my husband is rather ‘passive’, my boss on the other hand is quite the opposite, and being of a rather ‘dominant’ nature and I’m quite sure this is a big part of it.

He’s also quite obsessed with sex, is always ‘horny’ and loves looking up my skirts! And though some of his behavior in the office would no doubt have some running in the other direction, I find it a fun atmosphere to work in with him providing me with plenty of on the job perks and time off whenever I need it.

He Has Made His Attentions Clear

He’s made it perfectly clear that he’d love to get in my pants anytime I’d be up for it, and though he occasionally gets a bit carried away with his hands and his ‘dirty’ mind, he’s for the most part totally harmless.

Needless to say he was more than happy to accept my invitation to join just me and my husband for a barbeque.

I hadn’t told him much, other than it would be light and casual with a few margaritas. When he came over It certainly didn’t take long for him to see that things were a lot more ‘relaxed’ with it being just the three of us, and in more ways than one.

With my husband knowing a bit about my boss, I knew his motives involved a bit more than us enjoying a bit of potato salad and steaks on the grill, and at the very least it meant me wearing something ‘hot’ and minimal to turn my boss on.

After all, I’d already been going to work every day in the shortest little skirts and dresses that had been primarily for his benefit.

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I Used Padded Bras A lot

For a time I even wore extra thick padded bras just to keep them from showing through my tops. If the nipple lovers into ‘extremes’ had only known what I was hiding beneath my padded bras!

One day my friend and I were at her house and while in her room we were changing and getting ready to go to the beach. At the time I think we were both eighteen. I had confided in her with my feelings about my body meaning my ‘breasts’ and we felt comfortable with each other.

My Friends Reaction Was a Pleasant Surprise

Though until then she had never seen my nipples before at least not without anything on, and as we began talking about it she wanted to see them.

When I took off my top her jaw dropped and she was about beside herself with her response, saying “OMG”… “Those are so ‘hot’…!”  I guess it took me by surprise as her reaction was not at all the one I was expecting. She then added that I should be showing them off instead of hiding them.

It Got Me Thinking……

I started to re-think it all and with her encouragement I stifled all my negative feelings and began wearing clothes that didn’t hide them so much. My breasts were certainly perky enough (and still are) that I didn’t need to wear any kind of bra. Upon doing so I couldn’t help but notice the attention I was getting from men (as well as from a few women) and it wasn’t just ‘looking’, if you get my meaning. The stares were all about ‘lust’…!

I Admit I Enjoyed the Attention

I began to enjoy the attention I got and it wasn’t long before my friend and I were shopping for the skimpiest little tops that left little if anything to the imagination and leaving my erect nipples clearly if not ‘suggestively’ displayed.

It was almost refreshing in a way and in fact a bit liberating to find that I could easily wear some things without a bra that were quite revealing that other girls couldn’t and look good in them. I must admit that I was finding showing them off, and in such a ‘suggestive’ manner, rather exciting (‘tube tops’ are now my best friend…!).

You might say I came to be a bit of an exhibitionist with it all, which you may have already got is in reality probably a bit of my nature.

How It Developed As I Grew Older

With this being the case you could say I was rather fortunate in meeting my husband (we’re now eight years married). He’s not at all the jealous type and in fact is quite the opposite. Given my nature I hardly think I could be with someone that was insanely jealous and ‘controlling’. He not only embraces any exhibitionist tendencies I might have, he encourages them.

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Ladies it is that time of the year again the office Christmas party; it could be the ideal time to finally get to know Blake from accounting that little bit better. Well here are my seven Christmas party flirting tips to help you break the ice and get to know your guy a little better.

This post talks about the a works party but the advice also works for any party over the Christmas period in general or even when out with friends on a regular night out.

Christmas Party Flirting Tip #1- Be Pretty Direct

Look men aren’t always the greatest at reading body language at times. They can misinterpret signals you are sending out. You need to be clear so that he knows that you are interested in him.

Now I am not advocating you go over and give a guy a lap-dance or be overly sexual if you are looking for something more serious than a one-night stand. Be flirty in a fun way to strike up a conversation.

Christmas Party Flirting Tip #2 – Don’t Be Afraid To Stand Out

If you want to get a guy to come over and talk to you try wearing something a little different or have an accessory that makes it easy for a guy to comment on. Also be aware that many men are afraid of rejection so try and be approachable and make it easy for a prospective suitor to feel like he can talk to you.

Christmas Party Flirting Tip #3 – Be Happy

A good way to achieve flirting tip #2 is to have a ready smile. I don’t mean have a strained grin on you at all times. It is just people love being around positive and happy people as it makes them happier and more relaxed too. Before the office Christmas party make sure that you are in the right frame of mind for some fun flirting. When you feel good about yourself others will too.

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Christmas Party Flirting Tip #4 – Don’t Stay In Your Comfort Zone

What I mean about ladies is just don’t hang out with your friends at the party. I know it might be easier but guys find it harder to approach women when they are in a group as it can be quite intimidating. If you see that a guy is interested in you try separating yourself from the group so you are much more approachable.

Christmas Party Flirting Tip #5 – Be Polite Even If You Are Not Interested

Look a guy may feel vulnerable when they approach and if you instantly tell them to “get lost” or something similar it really could come back to haunt you. A bad rejection could end up with the guy bad mouthing you to colleagues and before you know it some people may think you are the “stuck-up office bitch”.

I know this is wrong but not all people deal with rejection well and if it is fairly public and involves alcohol well it could spell trouble. Just be polite and let them down gently. Just think about how you would like to be “politely told no thanks”.

Christmas Party Flirting Tip #6 – Let The Guy Talk

Look you might be a little nervous and just start to babble. Just take a deep breath and realize the guy maybe as nervous as you are. Ask him about himself and what he enjoys to find out a little about him as a person.

Look it is a fact people like to talk about themselves and it always makes them feel good if they believe someone is genuinely listening to them. It also gives you a better feel about the guy and even whether he is someone you may want to see outside the office.

Flirting Tip #7 – Don’t Be Afraid To Make The First Move Girls!

Look there is enough evidence out there that guys do like it when women approach them. If you find yourself attracted to a man don’t let the chance to pass you by. Just be fun, flirty and casually approach the man you are interested in and strike up a conversation.

Christmas Party Bonus Flirting Tip – Don’t Be A Try Hard

Never be someone you are not it is never going to end up with a great relationship. Ladies you have to relax, have some fun flirting and be proud of who you are……if you do this right then the rest will happen naturally.

Finally…..

Well it is all a bit of fun at the end of the day. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and let things happen naturally. Remember it is Christmas a time for cheer and frolicking.

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This post came about whilst I was watching daytime TV the other day (I had cold and wasn’t at work). They had a piece where they were discussing men who dictate who they let their female partners see.

In this context it was when the man in question was concerned about a “friend” the girl is going to see; whom the guy is convinced fancies the women. They argument was whether the man had the right to make the call (you can’t see that guy/gal) or whether it should be all about trust and be up to the women whom she sees or doesn’t.

I think this is a great debate to have here as there is a good deal of male readers on my blog too.

I Want To Look At The Wider Context

There are women out there whose partner (be it guy or gal) has put them in this position no doubt. It doesn’t have to be in that context either; there may be similar situations from “you are not going out in that” to “I don’t like your friend I think she is a bad influence on you…..I don’t want you to see them”.

The problem with many of these situations is that they maybe the thin end of a wedge. If you let one situation develop and allow yourself to bedictated to and give in; will you be more inclined to “give in” when the situation comes up again. Where does it end?

I understand that being in a relationship is all about give and take but where do you draw the line?

All Women Should Be Empowered

Look my whole site is about how women should be empowered and to learn to enjoy their sexual selves. This can only start with self respect which is I think means that in every partnership there has to be some sort of independence. I don’t think that a co-dependent relationship is healthy in the long run or for one person within the relationship to be obviously in control.

Within a relationship a women should be allowed to see whomever she wants without the partner being able to set terms (OK I admit there may be some very serious instances where this may not be the case). There is another argument however…….

The Other Side Of The Coin

There are people out there that don’t agree. They believe that if a woman knows that a partner might have reservations about a particular person and their relationship with their partner; it is unfair then to go and see that person. In this instance though isn’t this where relationships and trust comes into play?

The partner should place trust in their significant other and let them go and see whomever they want. Knowing that at the end of the day the women will always come back to the partner concerned.

What is the right stance? Does giving in over a smaller point then lead to one person dominating the relationship over time?

I would love to hear what you have to say on this matter.

Thanks

Holly

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Well I know I as a woman I have faked an orgasm. I reckon at some point in our lives most of us ladies have faked an orgasm. It is now believed that it is possible as many as one in three women is unable to achieve orgasm with their partner.

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I had an email from a lovely lady Rachael who was looking for some advice on how she could attain consistent orgasms from sexual experiences with her husband. She wrote:-

“When it comes to orgasms I have to use all my acting skills. I don’t try to be a porno star and overplay my hand. All I do is clench my muscles, hold my breath and quiver, then relax and smile”.

Yeh me too! I know exactly where Rachael is coming from and I expect that most of my readers have been in this position too. Rachael charade is not unusual. I have reported on this website surveys have shown that anywhere between 48 and 72 percent of women has faked orgasms. Rachael went on to explain in her email that in every other area of her relationship she was completely transparent with her husband.

I always advocate conversation between partners is paramount to a fulfilling sexual relationship and that Rachael in her lets say “performances” has in fact been lying to her husband. Yes it maybe shocking but it is true to say to perform in this way is to be deceitful to your husband or partner.

Now it is I guess OK to fake every now and again. Call them small white lies but if you are consistently faking an orgasm then I believe there is a problem. To fake when maybe you’re tired or just want to end sex and don’t want to let the partner down doesn’t harm the relationship.

The problem is habitual faking. I know when a women fakes an orgasm she is doing it for some one else. The thing is if you turn that on its head and think about it; then as a woman you are not faking an orgasm to make yourself happy. If you are faking all you are doing is smoothing over the cracks in your sexual life. In effect by faking you are just caressing the ego of a lover into thinking they are satisfying you sexually.

The reasoning behind why we fake it maybe due to our narrow view of sexuality and that the right way to have sex must end with a screaming orgasm. It is unsurprising that we’d rather fake than strive within restrictive parameters towards such an uncertain end.

It is habitual faking that is counter productive. It is when women who are faking all the time or very frequently because they feel under pressure to please a partner or because they themselves are reaching orgasm rarely or not at all. This situation is then made even worse because these women don’t know how to say what they want to improve things sexually.

Why Do Women Fake Orgasms?

I believe women who habitually fake are probably suffering from low sexual self-esteem and have an eroded sense of entitlement to sexual gratification. These women don’t believe they can ask their partner to help them orgasm because they would feel greedy or selfish. This is true of many women; a woman could be a strident feminist in her professional life but a lot less confident sexually. They fake and lie because they don’t feel they can ask for what they want.

It is also true to say that men may fake too. Yes I have many men also visit my website and even though a man may ejaculate he may not orgasm. Ejaculation is the functional part of sex; the propulsion of seminal fluid. The orgasm is the climactic feeling in sex.

It doesn’t matter on the gender habitual faking as opposed to occasional faking is corrosive to emotional intimacy. If the faking continues it may lead to the person who has been faking becoming resentful to their partner. They may feel bad about themselves which in turn will put strain or bring conflict to the relationship.

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