Self Pleasuring | How To Have Amazing Orgasms And Understand Your Body

Self Pleasuring | Discover The True Delights Of Self Pleasuring

Self Pleasuring has many benefits. From being able to fulfill yourself sexually; completely on your own terms to being good for your health and well-being.

It is through self exploration via self pleasuring women can learn all about their sexuality.


Discover what turns them on, what sex buttons they liked to be stimulated the most and become confident in their sexual self.

The issue for many is that information about self pleasuring through teen to adult years was scarce. This had led to not knowing how to get most pleasure and amazing orgasms through masturbation.



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Self Pleasuring – Each Women Is Different

The secret to bringing each woman to orgasm is different. Women can climax through clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration or G-Spot stimulation. There is no wrong way when it comes to self-pleasuring we are all different.

In this article I just want to show reveal some of my insider tips to getting the most out of self pleasuring…


Getting The Most From Self Pleasuring

1. Self Pleasuring – Setting the moodSelf Pleasuring

If you are going to get the most from the experience you must give yourself plenty of time.

I would advise that you give yourself at least 90 minutes for your alone time.

It will be enough time to get you in in a relaxed mood.


You can take a bath or pour yourself a generous glass of wine. It is as much about state of mind as it is about technique ladies.

Next make sure that you can’t be disturbed. That means turning off the mobile/cell, locking the door and if you have children send them round a neighbors.


Then get yourself in a position where you feel comfortable and relaxed in.

Women generally start out on their backs, legs bent and spread apart, with their feet on the ground.

Make sure that you have plenty of support and cushioning.



2. Fantasize/romanticize for self-pleasuring

This is your alone time and recalling a past sexual encounter or elaborate on a favorite sexual fantasy can really set the mood.

If you need a little of bit of help getting started then read an erotic story, look at a sexy publication or even indulge in a bit of adult entertainment. Ladies this is your time anything goes as long as it get the pulse racing.


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3. Self Pleasuring and exploring all parts of your body

It amazing but a lot of women really don’t know their own bodies at all. Experiment and run your hands all over your body.

If some thing feels good then linger there and just enjoy the feeling it creates.


Look at your genitals in a mirror (especially if you are unfamiliar with your own) and caress the different parts to see what feels good to you.

There are the inner and outer labia, your clitoris, your vagina and your perineum.



4. Self Pleasuring – Don’t be afraid to play around to find what is best for you

Ladies get those fingers working; use one or two fingers and start to stoke different parts of you vulva and remembering to stimulate your clitoris and labia.

When self pleasuring it is about finding the rhythm that works for you. This means experimenting with pressure, speed and motion.

I suggest placing fingers either side of the clitoris and stoking up and down, or placing two fingers on the clitoral hood and rubbing in a circular motion.


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5. Self Pleasuring – Life is about surprises

Unless you are willing to open up your mind and let yourself be comfortable with your own skin. I mean trying everything!

Then you will not get the most from your own body.


When self-pleasuring try different types of touch: stroke, tickle, knead or why not even try gently pulling your genitals.

Anything goes. Use one or several fingers, the palm of the hand even your knuckles. Don’t be afraid it will only take you to a better place.

6. Self Pleasuring – It is a long and winding roadSelf Pleasuring Rocks

The thought of reaching that climax is all part of the fun. The thought of riding the wave will build the anticipation.

You can add to that by enhancing the excitement yourselves girls.


Learn to hold on to your sexual excitement by building up to the point of climax and then easing back.

Repeating this 5-6 times before orgasming.

Listen to what your body is telling you.

Your own body will tell you when you have the right tempo or when a certain tickle feels good.



7. Self Pleasuring – Remain relaxed
As the sexual energy starts to build it is critical to let it take you and not to fight it.
Breathing deeply rather than holding your breath will help as will rocking your pelvis as in intercourse.
I would also suggest rhythmically clenching and releasing your PC muscle (if you are looking for vaginal penetration then a dildo will help).

8. Self Pleasuring – Ride the wave

When the climax starts please continue to stimulate through the orgasm.

The body starts to get more sensitive so lighten up during those first receptive seconds but keep going to enjoy the pleasurable aftershocks.

The first orgasm may feel like a blip or a explosion however the more you practice the more range you will develop and understand.



Self Pleasuring – A Conclusion

Self pleasuring is obviously a very personnel thing.

It is though something to be embraced and practice will only lead to a better orgasms as you find what works for you.


Experimentation through self pleasuring will not only lead to personnel self satisfaction but can only benefit your sex life.

As you work out what you like and then pass on that information to your partner.


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  1. By the River says

    Great advice!!! As a man I don't know exact details of female pleasure except through my wife–who is in her 60's now and still quite orgasmic. My challenge as her lover is to find those little things which make her reach ecstasy. It changes from time to time so add that to your Bible on female orgasm.

    Women are lucky for the changes. Us men just want our penises stroked and we are happy. Not so with a woman!

    The magic of the left upper quadrant of the clit is so real for my wife. In her older age she does not engorge as much as when she was in her 40-50's, but the magic is still so much there. She says a glass of wine is great, but a second is making it hard to reach her orgasm. Each woman is different and each day as well.

    So go for whatever it is that turns you on today. For sure, the more she finds orgasms, the more she wants another! She is in her 60's and does not look a day over 40. I think it has to do with good orgasms and she sure does go wild with excitement.

    I just wish us men had the capacity for multiple orgasms. She is like the Eveready bunny = it keeps going and going and going!!!!

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