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How To Incorporate Them Into Sex

We have incorporated a bit of ‘kink’ into our sex lives that includes a bit of bondage with restraints as well as some other activities for fun and our nipple play is a big part of it. He also encourages me to fantasize about naughty scenarios (involving other men, including my ‘boss’…..).

Which frequently carry over into our encounters with a bit of role playing (You may have guessed that I love being tied up!). He is very good at giving me plenty to think about in this regard, meaning such ‘naughty thoughts’ about me and other men and sometimes ‘women’(He’s really ‘BAD’…!!), and especially during sex, as he knows how much his suggestive comments turn me on.

Having him restrain me with my hands above my head/behind me etc. and then focusing on my nipples literally drives me insane!  I’m then helpless to prevent it as he sucks on, pinches, twists and tortures my swollen nipples.

We Have Other Toys Too

We’ve also incorporated a few rather carefully selected ‘toys’ as well, including a collection of lifelike dildos etc. with a rather varied collection of nipple clamps. The orgasms I have as a result of such play are more intense than anything I can begin to describe, especially when combining attention/torture to my nipples with oral sex (as well as ‘anal’ stimulation).

If you can perhaps imagine it, my being naked, totally restrained and helpless, him keeping a steady ‘pull’ on the chain attached to a set of clover clamps firmly fastened on the very tips of my nipples, a huge dildo buried up my ass and all the while he’s sucking on my clit…’OMG’……………………………………!!!!.  (I can easily get carried away……)

A few sites that I can recommend with regards to nipple pumping and what is available are www.Medicaltoys.com and http://www.pumpingplus.com as well as www.nipplewraps.com . All of which feature quality products and cater to this activity exclusively.

Some of You May Have Concerns

If one is worried about making their nipples too large, they need not worry as the size increase for the most part is temporary after pumping them and will last an hour or so, which is enough to significantly enhance a sexual encounter, or make going out in a revealing top and no bra ‘exciting’ to say the least.

Although a regular pumping routine done several times a week at half hour or so intervals will over time produce ‘permanent’ results as it has in my case. Your own goals and motives will determine the results you achieve.

My Personal Experiences

Over the past year or so my nipples have substantially increased in size and are now at least an inch or so in length and almost always ‘erect’. And that is ‘without’ any pumping. When pumped they are if you can imagine, ‘much’ larger.

To the uninitiated it may all sound a bit otherwise, but just so you know, I’m in no way a ‘freak’ with it, it’s just something we’ve found that has really enhanced our enjoyment sexually, ‘mine’ especially!! Just to add we are both professional people and lead normal lives. I think we just happen to be two very sexually aware people that enjoy adding a bit of spice to our lives.

My Husband and I

My husband and I are in a relationship where we can talk freely and openly about all things sexual. And granted some of the things we enjoy and have mutually agreed upon may seem a bit over the top to some.

Granted I know it’s certainly not for everyone, but it works for us and I think we have a happier relationship because of it. It’s certainly one that’s come to be more fun and exciting and definitely not ‘boring’.

Communication Is Key

Communication about sexual matters and things of this nature I know can often be difficult with one’s partner, but taking responsibility for your own pleasure doesn’t have to depend on anyone else.

If one wants to improve their responses to touch and stimulation via masturbation or from their partner there are certainly ways to achieve them.  One first of all needs to release their mind, permit themselves to fantasize, and allow themselves to explore their own body and find out what it is that turns them on, between their legs ‘as well as between their ears’.

This doesn’t have to happen overnight, but can be something that in time with a bit of effort can be quite sexually fulfilling and add a considerable amount of pleasure to one’s sexual being. It is also liberating to accept your body and all its inherited traits as it is, be it short, tall, slender or heavy, big or small breasted.

THE END – I hope you enjoyed Michele's series I certainly did and once again I would like to give a big thanks for all her hard work….you are a real star Michele

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I Have Done My Research

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After researching some of the sites online offering devices to increase the sensitivity as well as the ‘size’ of the nipples, he surprised me with a set of cylinders and pump to begin pumping them (vacuum pumping).

It’s not as if I had no sensitivity in my nipples, and they were certainly not ‘small’, but my husband in his infinite wisdom (and ‘devious’ nature) decided that it would be fun and interesting to see just how much ‘more so’ things could be enhanced in the interest of a bit of added sexual excitement.

After A Bit of Experimentation

After trying them and with a bit of experimenting the results were so dramatic, not just with the increased sensitivity but the ‘visual’ aspect of them becoming so much larger and ‘longer’, it became something we rather quickly got into, ‘especially’ for foreplay.

The increased sensitivity (beyond words!!) and size made any attention given to them much more intensified and would easily have me aroused (‘getting off’) in short order. As you can imagine this made pumping them not at all hard to get into.

I Have More Than One Set

I now have three different sets of cylinders at different sizes but have found the 5/8” and ¾” to be the most ‘pleasing’ and effective for my own anatomy. And as I mentioned on the site, these can also be used on another ‘especially sensitive’ part of the female anatomy as well, with ‘mind numbing’ results, meaning one’s ‘clit’. ‘OMG’…, but that’s for another time!

I generally pump them in the mornings just after showering  when I can leave the cylinders attached to my nipples while I’m getting ready for work, which is sometimes about a good forty minutes or so with a few ‘breaks’ in between.

How They Work

Each cylinder has a ‘check valve’ so that once it is pumped to one’s desired level it can be disconnected from the pump to give one freedom to move around without it. If it’s for a sexual encounter, or if I’m really feeling naughty before going out for an evening, a party etc. with the prospect of showing them off in a revealing little top, I will usually pump them for 15 or twenty minutes.

Which is all that is now necessary to have my nipples ‘super swollen and erect’, with it lasting all evening and with them ‘OMG’, more ‘sensitive’ than you can imagine!! Just the fabric of my thin top constantly rubbing against them is enough to make me ‘wet’…!!

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With his past few visits it has in fact become pretty ‘hot’..  Just to give one some idea as to how ‘much’..  Our ‘play-fighting’ and subsequent ‘wrestling’ has had me on more than one occasion being stripped naked by my boss with him lying on top of me on the grass and just short of him actually fucking me.

And  ‘YES’…, he’s ‘much’ bigger than my husband! Being ‘rock’ hard and with only the thin fabric of the shorts he was wearing separating us he was rather enjoying making me feel every ‘detail’. In talking about it my husband shared that he’d love to watch me take it a bit further which certainly wouldn’t be difficult, that is allow him to actually fuck me.

I Haven’t Exactly Said No

I didn’t exactly say “no” which I knew would turn him on. I know all too well what he likes. For my husband it’s the biggest turn on, as he’s standing there watching it all, and for myself I can’t help but find it all pretty hot and exciting (‘very’…!!).

It has been several weeks since we’ve had him over and though it hasn’t happened. I see him (my boss) every day at work which has me thinking some pretty naughty thoughts about his weekend visits more than I care to admit.

With my husband knowing that I’m now a bit more ‘open’ to his naughty suggestion, he’s also been bringing it up with suggestive scenarios quite regularly during sex, which ultimately has us both talking rather ‘explicitly’ about me sucking and fucking my boss in the naughtiest ways.

Lunch Has Become Almost a Daily Thing

My boss has also been taking me to lunch nearly every day, where I have to confess that I’ve been allowing him to have a bit of ‘fun’ on the ride to and from the restaurant. He has a small little sports car that sits quite low to the ground and it has a pretty ‘cramped’ interior, with both the driver and passenger seat situated quite close to each other. Just to give one some idea, when his hand is on the shift knob he’s almost touching my knee!

Not only is it difficult to climb in and out of, but it makes riding in it in a short skirt with any kind of modesty almost out of the question, as it has my ass buried in the seat which has my skirt constantly riding up, and it’s already pretty short to begin with!

It Can All Be Quite Revealing

With him sitting so closely, it goes without saying he can easily look over and see right up my skirt. I know how much it turns him on and of course I’m fully aware that I’m not always being so ‘careful’ with how I’m sitting, which makes it all extra naughty, especially when I’m not wearing panties! He has made a few advances in the past while driving in his car as in touching my bare thigh and at times a bit ‘more’, though I’ve always stopped him before things got too carried away.

As of late I’ve been allowing it which has him taking the ‘long’ way back to work, as well as driving much more ‘slowly’. I must admit I’ve been enjoying our lunches! As you may have guessed, my husband loves hearing about it. He gets so turned on with me sharing some of the details he encourages me with such behavior all the more. Our weekends have been pretty busy of late, but with things easing up I’ve been thinking it just might be time to plan another barbeque with just the ‘three’ of us.

God knows my husband can hardly wait..

I Hope You Don’t Mind My Sharing This

I may be sharing a bit much here involving some of the dynamics of our relationship. I know many will read into this; what they want, but in regards to this I don’t take things further than any boundaries my husband and I have set and agreed upon, which keeps things open and honest as well as fun and exciting for the both of us.

I Have Though About a Boob Job

I’ve certainly had thoughts about implants, in fact some of my friends have had them with some pretty good results, but I’ve learned to love my body just the way it is. Also my husband loves my breasts as they are as well as my rather ‘large’ nipples.

If you’ve read my comments on this site you know that they have for me actually become by far one of the most erotic pleasure zones on my body. My husband is rather adventurous with all things sexual when it comes to suggesting and trying different things to spice up our sex life, and as I’ve since come to find out, there are ‘plenty’ of devices/methods to bring an untold amount of pleasure to one’s nipples, which can if one is open to exploring really heat up one’s sex play!

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My Boss IS A Big Guy

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He’s a big guy and much bigger than my husband (‘ in more ways than one’) almost to the point of being a bit intimidating, and he easily overpowers me, meaning anything he would ‘really’ want to do to me, there would be no stopping him.

It usually starts not long after he arrives, with a bit of playful slapping, and then gradually escalates more and more throughout the evening till it becomes a lot more ‘physical’ in nature and probably closer to actual ‘wrestling’.

With what little I’m wearing and especially my short little skirt and no ‘panties’, as you might imagine it makes his  little ‘assaults’ rather easy to carry out. And needless to say he’s ‘really’ turned on with it, with him breathing heavily and wanting to totally molest me in every possible way.

Alcohol Makes Me Feel Naughty

After more than a few margaritas which have gone straight to my head, I’m feeling pretty naughty and into it, especially with all his relentless ‘grabbing’ between my legs with his big ‘probing’ fingers, which ultimately has me soaking ‘wet’ and pretty hot and turned on.

By this time as you might imagine he’s also pretty worked up and ultimately grabbing at what little I’m wearing and trying to rip it off. His first target is always the string of my little bikini top, which with one well placed grab at the string he all too easily rips it off me in a matter of a few seconds.

My Boss Is a Determined Fellow

Throughout the evening I’m usually having to put it back on ‘several’ times! Of course I’m well aware that all my slapping, kicking and fighting (including smacks/kicks to his balls) does little to stop him and just turns him on all the more and making him all the more determined.

Upon seeing us really getting into it, my husband will conveniently excuse himself to go to the restroom or into the kitchen to make more margaritas and deliberately take his time, and leaving us totally alone in a remote part of our house or backyard. Of course my boss takes full advantage, and knowing I’m already pretty hot and turned on and literally ‘soaking’ with my juices, directs all of his attentions between my legs, easily slipping his probing fingers up inside me. And though I’m all the while slapping him, I have to confess at the same time it all has me so ‘hot’ it has him nearly making me ‘come’!

Though guised as being all in fun, I’m well aware from the start where it’s headed, with it becoming naughtier as the evening goes on. My husband loves encouraging it, and not just me but also my boss. Let’s just say he’s well aware of my husband’s permissive attitude and more than ready to take it as far as he can.

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We Still Managed To Keep Things Business at Work

Strange as it may seem, the things going on at our home with my boss hadn’t at all affected things at my work, at least not in a negative way. And though there were ‘references’ made, giving evidence that it was very much right beneath the surface, we didn’t really talk about it and carried on business as usual which under the circumstances we were both happy to do.

My boss had rather quickly become somewhat of a regular at our house on the weekends. I knew my husband was enjoying the way I would dress, which was pretty ‘minimal’, being always a super short little denim skirt and no panties that I could barely bend over in, not to mention a ‘revealing’ top, which was more often than not, a barely there, little string bikini top that would have my nipples clearly displayed.

The Alcohol Would Flow

When he (my boss) would come over my husband would deliberately keep the margaritas flowing to dull my inhibitions as well as encourage me to be ‘bad’…. as in ‘very’ naughty….. One of his absolute favorite things is me being a little cock-tease for other men, especially when sitting in short skirts (and no panties) at restaurants, parties, etc, not to mention my ‘work’. He loves it and I have to confess that I find it exciting. As you might imagine, being in the privacy of our home makes such naughty behavior that much easier to get into. My little skirt would be so short, there’s really no way I can sit in it without exposing myself in some way, and when we’d all be seated around our fire pit with my boss all too conveniently sitting across from me (which my husband had carefully orchestrated), I would totally indulge him, casually opening my legs and exposing my bare shaved pussy which would be driving my boss crazy.

As you might imagine, this only served to enhance any of the horseplay that was going on between us with my boss becoming much more aggressive, with him grabbing my ass and a lot ‘more’, and all in full view of my husband. Of course in response I would begin slapping him for his little assaults on my body and our little ‘fight’ would be on.

My Husband Loved All of This and It Turned Me on Too

Of course my husband loves it and I must admit that I’ve found it rather exciting, and now when he comes over I actually find myself a bit aroused just with the anticipation of it, as it has over time escalated to some ‘play fighting’/wrestling between us.

Which of course my boss who is a already a walking hard-on and wanting to fuck me senseless is more than happy to initiate, as it provides him with plenty of ‘touching’ and ‘grabbing’ in places I don’t need to mention, with it ultimately becoming pretty ‘naughty’.

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We Have Quite a Private Backyard

We have a pretty private backyard, which makes going along with my husband’s suggestions regarding what I wear not at all difficult. Knowing my boss I knew he certainly wasn’t going to mind, and I went along with my husband’s request, though I’ve certainly been known to do a few things on my own without his encouragement.

In spite it being my boss, or perhaps ‘because’ of it, I found myself indulging my husband even a bit more than I think he’d anticipated. And needless to say, my boss was enjoying every minute and practically drooling at seeing me so barely dressed.

My Choice Was “Risqué”…..

I’d worn an especially revealing, ‘barely-there’ little top which had my erect nipples ‘well’ exposed, and a super ‘short’ little denim mini and very little ‘else’, which means ‘no panties’, which of course my husband always encouraged.

We had him over that weekend, and we all had such good time my husband had me invite him the following weekend. My boss was enjoying our hospitality, not to mention the eye candy I was more than generously providing him.

He had also rather quickly picked up on my husband’s rather permissive and liberal attitude with regards to his wife, meaning ‘me’, and he saw that he didn’t at all mind him being more than a bit friendly with me even with my husband watching.

Things Started To Get Hotter and Hotter

By the following weekend, upon coming over he was even much more relaxed around both me and my husband, and I was also enjoying his company, a ‘lot’.. And things gradually got a bit more ‘interesting’, if not a bit ‘hotter’…

My boss and I both have a bit of a ‘touchy feely’ nature. God knows I hug and kiss everyone when it comes to greetings and goodbyes, though it’s no secret that my boss enjoys it in a much naughtier way where I’m concerned.

This had graduated to a bit of horseplay that had begun to go on between us which would happen when either of us would walk by. It was no secret that though being ‘playful’, it was laced with sexual tension.

My Husband Encouraged It

And naturally my husband saw it as something he could encourage, and would create situations that made it rather easy for us to get into it. He was also encouraging me to have as much ‘fun’ as I wanted when around my boss, and of course I knew very well what he meant.

He was basically giving me the freedom to do whatever I wanted with my boss when he was at our home, and I was enjoying it, but I wasn’t quite sure just how far I wanted to take it. It hadn’t escaped my mind that we saw quite a bit of each other every day.

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I Am Proud OF Who I Am and Glad To Show It

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I’m always shopping for the hottest clothes and the sexiest shoes which he loves. Adding to this, he loves me looking hot and showing off my body for other men. This is true especially at my work, where he loves me wearing short little skirts and dresses that drive my horny boss crazy, with him regularly taking me to lunch as well as making passes whenever he can get away with it.

He also loves me participating in “no panty Friday’s”. It’s soo-o-o-o ‘ naughty’!! And I must admit that it has me inclined on occasion to exhibit a bit of suggestive behavior when sitting at my desk, as well as in other situations, going to ‘lunch’ with my boss etc. Subsequently on Fridays needless to say my boss is usually spending a lot more time with me, not to mention taking me to ‘lunch’.

…..And There Is More

I’m going out on a limb here, but over the past year or so and especially when it’s ‘warm’, we’ve also been having him (my boss) over forbarbeques and margaritas with it being just the three of us. I had invited him before for parties at our house where there were several guests, but it was my husband’s suggestion that we have him over exclusively.

I had shared with my husband some time ago that I had liked him, in fact from the day I started working in his office there was something about him that turned me on. It was just conversation and in sharing it with my husband I wasn’t at the time suggesting anything of a sexual nature.

Attractive In a More “Unconventional” Way

He’s not the best looking guy but there’s definitely something about him that I find incredibly attractive. Being that my husband is rather ‘passive’, my boss on the other hand is quite the opposite, and being of a rather ‘dominant’ nature and I’m quite sure this is a big part of it.

He’s also quite obsessed with sex, is always ‘horny’ and loves looking up my skirts! And though some of his behavior in the office would no doubt have some running in the other direction, I find it a fun atmosphere to work in with him providing me with plenty of on the job perks and time off whenever I need it.

He Has Made His Attentions Clear

He’s made it perfectly clear that he’d love to get in my pants anytime I’d be up for it, and though he occasionally gets a bit carried away with his hands and his ‘dirty’ mind, he’s for the most part totally harmless.

Needless to say he was more than happy to accept my invitation to join just me and my husband for a barbeque.

I hadn’t told him much, other than it would be light and casual with a few margaritas. When he came over It certainly didn’t take long for him to see that things were a lot more ‘relaxed’ with it being just the three of us, and in more ways than one.

With my husband knowing a bit about my boss, I knew his motives involved a bit more than us enjoying a bit of potato salad and steaks on the grill, and at the very least it meant me wearing something ‘hot’ and minimal to turn my boss on.

After all, I’d already been going to work every day in the shortest little skirts and dresses that had been primarily for his benefit.

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Nipple pumps create a vacuum to stimulate the nipple which will increase your state of arousal. It is possible that over a long period of usage that nipple pumps could increase the size of your nipples.

The average women who may own a nipple pump though wouldn’t use it enough to really notice any difference in the size of their nipples even if they were to use it every day say for 10 minutes.

If I have a lot if time to myself and want to indulge in some self pleasure then a nipple pump can be the ideal sex toy to really spice up my self love time.

The reason being is that once most nipple pumps have been activated and placed over the nipple they stay in place and really help me to get aroused. The way I use nipple pumps is to get myself a little hot and horny first with a bit of sensual touching. Then once my nipples are erect and I am breathing a little heavier. I get my nipple pump which is already to go by my side and crank it up.
The feeling is wonderful and is guaranteed to get my real hot. I then continue to pleasure myself with the nipple pumps still attached. I can tell you the orgasms are tremendous and fun.

The nipple pump can also be used in the same way in love-making I have a partner use one of me and the proceeding to fellate me and it is wild and a real turn on and I must confess I am guaranteed to come.

It is fair to say I am a big fan of nipple pumps and recommend them. A nipple pump isn’t for everyday use but for a special occasion or if you have some time on your hands then a good nipple pump will really spice up a sexual encounter or self pleasure time. A good nipple pump can be bought for under $30 which is a cheap but wonderful addition to any sex toy collection.

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There are several types of orgasm for ladies. Most females can reach orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris with the fingers, oral sex or a sex toy such as a the dildo or vibrator.

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The first type of orgasm to explain is the one most people associate with women the vaginal orgasm. The easiest way most women achieve a vaginal orgasm is through G-Spot stimulation. The G-spot is a spongy mass of tissue that swells (engorges with blood) when excited. It's still hard to find for many women. It is however discovered two inches within the vagina on the front wall. It is known that by stimulating the G-Spot for vaginal orgasms leads to a much more powerful orgasmic experience.

The second type of orgasm is the blended orgasm which is a mix of clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. They are known to be powerful orgasms that can produce intense orgasms and also lead to female ejaculation.

Multiple orgasms are a series of orgasms that occur over a brief period of time and they can occur with any kind of orgasm. With multiple orgasms after the first orgasm women will have sequential climaxes. Multiple orgasms can be continuous without further stimulation or stimulation necessary for some women to continue to orgasm.

A simultaneous orgasm is when a lovers climax at the same time. This can be a fantastic experience, though doubtless not something you mean to do each time you make love, a lot of the enjoyment of the orgasm is watching your other half have one.

The brain is the largest sex organ, and due to this, some folks can reach climax without sexual stimulation. These orgasms are achieved through a woman having erotic thoughts without stimulation until reaching orgasm.

Nocturnal orgasms or wet dreams are another type prompted by the brain whilst sleeping and most associated with boys going through puberty (put in as technically another type of orgasm).

An extended orgasm is a solitary orgasm that sustains pleasurable sensations of climax over a long than usual period of time. The duration of the orgasm can be developed over time and then can last an hour or longer.

Orgasms are felt in the body, mind, emotions and spirit. The goal of gaining orgasm is to feel the greatest amount of that pleasure as possible either on your own or with a partner. They are mainly through stimulation of erotic zones but it is important to remember the mind needs to be stimulated to really make the most of your sexual encounters and therefore your eventual orgasm.

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Self pleasure is the key to understanding your own body and what delights it holds that can only be released by the right stimuli. Ladies how can you have a better sex life if you don’t yourself know what buttons that need to  be pushed to give pleasure to your body? Through exploration self pleasure teaches you what sexual stimuli leads to personnel fulfilment for you. This can then be related to a partner thus leading to a much improved sex life.

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Why We Should All Self Pleasure – A great article that is a good guide to start with when thinking about self pleasure.

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