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• Are the sexually arousing?
• Will they make my nipples bigger?
• Will I lactate?

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Nipple pumps create a vacuum to stimulate the nipple which will increase your state of arousal. It is possible that over a long period of usage that nipple pumps could increase the size of your nipples.

The average women who may own a nipple pump though wouldn’t use it enough to really notice any difference in the size of their nipples even if they were to use it every day say for 10 minutes.

If I have a lot if time to myself and want to indulge in some self pleasure then a nipple pump can be the ideal sex toy to really spice up my self love time.

The reason being is that once most nipple pumps have been activated and placed over the nipple they stay in place and really help me to get aroused. The way I use nipple pumps is to get myself a little hot and horny first with a bit of sensual touching. Then once my nipples are erect and I am breathing a little heavier. I get my nipple pump which is already to go by my side and crank it up.
The feeling is wonderful and is guaranteed to get my real hot. I then continue to pleasure myself with the nipple pumps still attached. I can tell you the orgasms are tremendous and fun.

The nipple pump can also be used in the same way in love-making I have a partner use one of me and the proceeding to fellate me and it is wild and a real turn on and I must confess I am guaranteed to come.

It is fair to say I am a big fan of nipple pumps and recommend them. A nipple pump isn’t for everyday use but for a special occasion or if you have some time on your hands then a good nipple pump will really spice up a sexual encounter or self pleasure time. A good nipple pump can be bought for under $30 which is a cheap but wonderful addition to any sex toy collection.

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There are several types of orgasm for ladies. Most females can reach orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris with the fingers, oral sex or a sex toy such as a the dildo or vibrator.

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The first type of orgasm to explain is the one most people associate with women the vaginal orgasm. The easiest way most women achieve a vaginal orgasm is through G-Spot stimulation. The G-spot is a spongy mass of tissue that swells (engorges with blood) when excited. It's still hard to find for many women. It is however discovered two inches within the vagina on the front wall. It is known that by stimulating the G-Spot for vaginal orgasms leads to a much more powerful orgasmic experience.

The second type of orgasm is the blended orgasm which is a mix of clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. They are known to be powerful orgasms that can produce intense orgasms and also lead to female ejaculation.

Multiple orgasms are a series of orgasms that occur over a brief period of time and they can occur with any kind of orgasm. With multiple orgasms after the first orgasm women will have sequential climaxes. Multiple orgasms can be continuous without further stimulation or stimulation necessary for some women to continue to orgasm.

A simultaneous orgasm is when a lovers climax at the same time. This can be a fantastic experience, though doubtless not something you mean to do each time you make love, a lot of the enjoyment of the orgasm is watching your other half have one.

The brain is the largest sex organ, and due to this, some folks can reach climax without sexual stimulation. These orgasms are achieved through a woman having erotic thoughts without stimulation until reaching orgasm.

Nocturnal orgasms or wet dreams are another type prompted by the brain whilst sleeping and most associated with boys going through puberty (put in as technically another type of orgasm).

An extended orgasm is a solitary orgasm that sustains pleasurable sensations of climax over a long than usual period of time. The duration of the orgasm can be developed over time and then can last an hour or longer.

Orgasms are felt in the body, mind, emotions and spirit. The goal of gaining orgasm is to feel the greatest amount of that pleasure as possible either on your own or with a partner. They are mainly through stimulation of erotic zones but it is important to remember the mind needs to be stimulated to really make the most of your sexual encounters and therefore your eventual orgasm.

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Hi welcome to self-pleasureforwomen.com a site that hopes to cover  the many aspects of women’s issues but specifically concentrating on information about self pleasure and sexuality with the purpose of explaining how important self pleasure should be for all women.

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Self pleasure is the key to understanding your own body and what delights it holds that can only be released by the right stimuli. Ladies how can you have a better sex life if you don’t yourself know what buttons that need to  be pushed to give pleasure to your body? Through exploration self pleasure teaches you what sexual stimuli leads to personnel fulfilment for you. This can then be related to a partner thus leading to a much improved sex life.

Ladies please feel free to contact me with anything you want to discuss or feel I should cover in this site.

Here are some of our most read articles and are also an ideal starting point to understanding what this website is about.

Thanks

Holly Franklin

Why We Should All Self Pleasure – A great article that is a good guide to start with when thinking about self pleasure.

How to Choose the Right Dildo – An easy to use guide to help you choose the perfect dildo for you.

How to Use A Dildo – An easy guide to start you getting off.

World’d Top Three Most Powerful Vibrators – A lot of ladies asked for this info so I went and go it for you.

Jenna’s Ultimate Rotating G-Spot Vibrator – This is my favourite toy at the moment.

Nipple and Breast Play – Learn to love other parts of your body.

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Hi to all my readers and thanks for all your emails and kind words about my site as ever if you have any questions then please contact me at any time and I will try to answer any questions where ever I can.  Regular visiters of my site know that I have my own boutique well the people that host my site are offering some fantastic deal that I wanted to pass onto you.

There are several great deals that are explained on each individual banner. Also remember if are unsure about what toy to buy that I have a personnel shopping service. All you have to do is send me a message with what you are looking for and I will find the ideal solution for you.

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Self pleasure or women would like to present The Roommate by none other that Dharani our wonderful guest writer who has made significant contributions to self pleasure for women over the last few days.

The Roommate believe it or not is her first attempt at writing soft porn and ties up with this site in its subject matter. I hope you come to love Annie and Sally over the coming weeks as this great story continues.

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The Roommate

Chapter One

The new roommate was an unexpected addition to Annie’s life. There were no available rooms in the school flats, so when the Head Teacher asked if she’d put up Sally, the new art teacher, in her own place Annie agreed – reluctantly. That was two weeks ago. Now she was about to break.

Right from the start there was an undercurrent of tension. Not the usual sort when one’s life has suddenly been disrupted, but of the sexual kind. Although heterosexual, Annie had always appreciated an attractive woman and Sally was certainly that – faired skinned, white blonde hair with light blue eyes.

If Sally sensed any of Annie’s discomforts, she never let on. At first, the attraction alarmed her, consumed her, as desire grew into a nagging hunger that wouldn’t go away. The frustration caused by the inability to act on her forbidden desires imprisoned Annie in a state of internal agitation. After all, they were colleagues and Annie had her reputation with the school.

Annie’s torture began from the very moment Sally stepped into the flat. As she bent down to put her suitcase on the bed in the guest room, Annie couldn’t help but notice that Sally didn’t wear any knickers under her white Capri pants. The cork platform wedge sandals with their red leather straps wound round her ankles, only added to the effect – sexy.

Another quick glance as she stood back up and turned round revealed the large, soft bumps of nipples that floated on small breasts as they pressed against the thin fabric of her brilliant turquoise blue India gauze blouse – she didn’t wear a bra either.

That’s when it first happened. As she stole that furtive glance of Sally’s breasts, a sudden spasm between her legs caught Annie by surprise. It registered its intensity with a blush on her cheeks and a stiffening of her nipples. The effect stunned her.

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Dharani has no end to her talents and she has also written a great self pleasure story for us. It is fabulous and I really enjoyed. Thanks again Dharani. Read more of Dharani’s Articles here. Like Dharani’s work feel you could contribute too? Then contact Holly and let hundreds of other see you work.

I hear the train a coming….

I was on the overnight train to Ankara and the movement of the train was turning me on because the seam from the crotch of my Levis had worked its way under the crotch of my panties, over one of my pussy lips, finally resting on the side of my clit and up to my bum hole. If I moved a certain way, the seam would tighten up along the side of my clit and bum hole, sending shivers down my spine.

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Finally, I couldn’t take the tension any longer. I needed the release, to come, but I was in a train car late at night with a few other sleepy people. I tried squirming to reposition the seam on top of my throbbing clit to make it happen on its own, but I only succeeded in hurting myself.

I was wearing a large woollen poncho, so using it like a blanket; I lay down on my left side on the seat pretending to try to sleep. Then I put my right arm down across my chest, slipped my right hand down the front of my jeans. I gently pried the seam away from the side of my suffering clit.

Next, I slightly parted my pussy lips, and very lightly laid my index finger along the top of my hard clit. It was dry from rubbing on the seam of my jeans, the clit hood had been pushed back exposing the head which was dry and sore from direct exposure to the hard seam.

Without any motion from my hand, I slipped my fingertip quickly into my wet pussy, scooped up some slick moisture and gently washed it over my suffering clit to ease the chaffing.

Out of fear from being caught, I kept my index finger resting motionless on top of the shaft of my now throbbing clit, gently cupping the tip with a wet, curled fingertip. Barely touching the hard clit head, I let the rhythm and movement from the old train move my fingertip at will. Giving control of my pleasure over to the movements of the train only heightened the excitement. I prayed for every thump, bump and sway from the rails!

Because I couldn’t work my hand without being caught, as I grew more and more aroused, all I could do was gently press the heel of my hand into my mound, while pressing down with the top joint of my index finger that rested at the top of my clit shaft. This slightly raised my entire clit up closer to my index fingertip that was gently hovering over my now throbbing clit head.

Every so often I would allow my fingertip to lightly touch my little pee-hole to add to the tension or give a brief, light, passing massage to the exposed head of my clit. The waves of pleasure came over me in electric shocks. I fought the urge to finger myself in earnest.

I was lying on my left side with my left hand now under my sweatshirt lightly flicking a nipple. I have large, thick nipples – like pink #2 pencil erasers. It always feels electric when both my nipples and clitoris are stimulated at the same time.

With a series of bumps from going over a stretch of rough tracks, I finally allowed my finger tip to rapidly but firmly massage my exposed clit head, while the length of my index finger bore down on the shaft, heel of my hand into the roots of my clit in my mound. I swear if ever I squirted it was then. I had to struggle to keep composed as I convulsed in my solitary ecstasy.

My hand was soaked as I discretely pulled it out of my jeans and tried to wipe it off on the front of my sweatshirt under the poncho. I fell asleep with my hand on my breast and woke up about half an hour later in Ankara. Had I not came when I did, I would have been in quite an agitated state upon my arrival – that’s for sure!

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The Last Two Hotspots

Ladies we have covered the clitoris and the G-Spot. There are two more “erotic zones” that have been recorded. They aren’t that widely known about but knowledge of them can add even more variety to our self-pleasure time.

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The first of these “erotic zones” is a small area of highly sensitive erectile tissue located just above and both sides of the urethral sponge. It is given the name the U-Spot.

The U-Spot

The U-spot has only been recently discovered but has been found by researchers to give an unexpected and highly erotic response when stimulated correctly. It can be for self-pleasure purposes stimulated by a lubricated finger and within love making with a tongue or penis. Please note the U-spot is not the urethral opening, but just above and either side of it.

Your fingers play a crucial role in stimulating every part of your body. When using fingers to stimulate the U-spot, simply slip the fingers in gently above the clitoris, at the opening of the vagina. Do not apply too much pressure because every part of the vagina is sensitive and should be handled with care.

The U-spot with a little experimentation can become a treasured part of the women sexual being as the pleasure from caressing it can be euphoric.

The AFE Zone

The last erotic zone we will talk about is the AFE Zone. Researchers investigating vaginal dryness with Magnetic Resonance Imaging found that when the penis head stimulated certain areas of the vagina Subjects experienced wave after wave of intense pleasure resulting in orgasm climaxes. The results were similar to but more intense than G-Spot stimulation. Sliding the fingers up the front vagina wall you find a rough oval area of ridges. This is the G-Spot.

Sliding the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall. This is the AFE Zone. This roughness creates the friction and increases the pleasure sensations in both vagina and penis nerves.

The AFE zone is a vortex of the nerves that carry information from your whole genital to the spinal cord and brain. These nerves when stimulated send arousal signals to the part of your nervous system which enhances engorgement of appropriate areas and is responsible for sexual arousal.

This is also true for women that are not normally sexually responsive. Obviously the easiest way to locate the AFE zone is to slide the fingers halfway up the posterior vaginal wall you will find a larger area than the G-Spot, which is slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall.

Conclusion

These two zones the U-spot and AFE zone are areas of the female genitalia that are still new to researchers and the sex toy market has yet to really make toys to cater to these pleasure areas. However, with lubricated finger(s) and a little experimentation a girl could really have some fun.

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The G-Spot

There is still an argument over whether the g-spot really exists. A gynaecologist Dr. Jones Stewart on concluding his study wrote in an article for Times Magazine in 1983 that women that had the area supposedly contained the g-spot, surgically removed reported no loss of sensation.

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The belief of the general public though is that the g-spot is a reality with one study concluding that 84% of women believing that there is a “highly sensitive area” in the vagina. Modern day publishing discuss the g-spot as if it a medical truth.

The g-spot or Grafenberg Spot (named after its discoverer, a German gynaecologist called Ernst Grafenberg) is a small highly sensitive area located 5-8cm (2-5 inches) inside the vagina on the front upper wall. The g-spot is said to be the female equivalent of the male prostate gland. Women have even found they ejaculate a fluid if they have an orgasm by stimulation of the g-spot, researchers in North America claim the fluids composition is similar to the secretion of the prostate gland.

The g-spot is located beneath the urethral sponge. This explains why many women feel they have to pee when their g-spot is stimulated with every woman having a urethral sponge then every woman must have a g-spot.

The mystery around the g-spot can be partly explained by the common misconception surrounding it. It modern parlance many women believe the g-spot to be a “sex button” that can be pressed like a starter button, at anytime to cause an erotic explosion. Then as a result during love-making when this is the case and an erotic explosion does not appear leads many women to believe that the g-spot doesn’t exist. The g-spot mystery continues I believe because of a lack of understanding of the g-spot. The g-spot should be considered more as an “erotic zone” as Grafenberg himself described it.

I think many women who claim not to enjoy or notice g-spot stimulation are more then likely not using the correct technique or using sufficiently firm pressure on it so that the g-spot is being stimulated. First though us girls have to locate the g-spot and don’t worry many women find it difficult to locate the g-spot.

Locating the G-Spot

The g-spot is a bean shaped group of nerves tissues located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and position of the g-spot differs from women to women, but it is usually about the size of a quarter, and lies 2-3 inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. Women sometimes cannot find their own g-spot. Here are some tips to help all women.

Technique for Finding the G-Spot

Right ladies make sure you are relaxed and comfortable and plenty of time set aside to give your time to explore and experiment.

• Girls lay down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed with a small pillow under your buttocks.

• Then insert your lubricated fingers into your vagina towards your navel about 2 inches inside your vagina.

• Press with either one or two fingers against the front wall of your vagina applying a little more pressure than usual, as the g-spot is surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall.

• Move your fingers from side to side until you start to feel when that you are hitting the right spot. It should feel ridged unlike the rest of the vagina that is smooth. It will then as a result through stimulation swell and firm like the erectile tissue in a penis.

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How to Self-Pleasure Yourself to a G-Spot Orgasm

First of all please empty your bladder before self-love as women do get a feeling to urinate when the g-spot is first stimulated as we recorded earlier.

Girls to directly stimulate the g-spot lay on your back with your feet flat on the floor with your legs apart. Using the thumb of one hand start stimulating the clitoris, then girls slowly insert two finger as far as possible into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening until, pressuring upward with the tips of your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are more sharply upwards your can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vagina walls.

To increase the pleasure thrust your hand in and out simulating penis intercourse then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the g-spot is involved. If you want to really get yourself all hot a bothered remember to stimulate the clitoris as well or use the other hand to touch other erotic zones such as the nipples.

What to Remember When Stimulating the G-Spot

• Women need firm pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm and friction to have g-spot orgasms.

• Women may ejaculate a small amount of a white clear fluid when she has a g-spot orgasm.

• Please be careful girls and short nail are recommended.

• It may help to use a water based lubricant and wash you hands thoroughly with hot soapy water afterwards.

G-Spot Tips

Variety is the spice of life so experiment with using smooth, round beads placed in the fingertips of some latex gloves (use a water based lubricant because oil based lubes break down latex gloves) to provide more intense sensations when the hand is inserted into the vagina.

Another extra tip that isn’t do to with self-pleasure but I though I would like to add is to say rear-entry/doggy position is the best during intercourse to stimulate the g-spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on the top and a pillow beneath the hips.

The G-Spot Conclusion

The g-spot really does exist and with only a little patience and experimentation any girl can soon understand the power and excitement that g-spot stimulation can accomplish. There are techniques that involve using a dildo to simulate the penis in vaginal intercourse that really can be fun when self-pleasuring concentrating on the g-spot. Using the dildo instead of your fingers as in the methods explained above.

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This is very important but please remember that pleasuring yourself is not about how many times you come to an orgasm or even if you orgasm at all. It is about pleasing yourself, making you feel like no one else can.

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Self pleasure and Guilt 

“I feel guilty masturbating”, that is a recurring theme in the emails I get from my readers. The guilt of self pleasure differs within each case. I cannot begin to cover all the eventualities here but this section is an open discussion that I hope will allow women to see that self pleasure far from being something to feel guilty about should be something that is embraced and enjoyed.

Self pleasure has been condemned for a long time. Religion cast it as a sin and although we have moved on as people to become more self aware the stigma attached to self pleasure has stuck with some people still unable to truly feel comfortable about gaining pleasure from their own body.

In fact the sense of guilt is very important to in woman; they refrain from self pleasure more than men and admit to it less easily. This can be a result of repressive mind-sets of certain parents can prompt a later sense of guiltiness. The guilt from self-love can also be credited to fantasies that can go back to childhood that are connected to self pleasure. Which then makes a women feel guilty to revive them when they have a well rewarding sexual life.

Self pleasure isn’t dirty, dishonourable, or hazardous for the health. Unbelievably though self-pleasure has been considered for a long time to be a bad habit which is due to centuries of mis-education and prejudice that have turned something that should be enjoyable into something guilty. The present day translation maintains the disapproving image alive: to masturbate comes from the association of two Latin words, manus (hand) and stuprare (soil, make dirty). Self pleasure doesn’t make you wrong, mad or even give you acne. It can be a sign of emotional problems if it becomes compulsive but it really is something to embrace.

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Women can feel guilty about resorting to self pleasure, as if they stole something from their significant other: if to be fulfilled by self pleasure leads you to decline sex with your partner, obviously there is a predicament. But, in a couple, it is not necessary that we do everything together; must all pleasure be strictly shared? Sports, music and shopping do you have to do them all together? When self pleasure isn’t an escape, but a search for a balance, then you both will be at ease, and can experience a healthy sex life without tension. Where as frustration due to an insufficient sexuality might cause you to resent your partner, and even wish to turn away from sex with him or her.

In fact self pleasure can be practiced in front of a partner. In a lot of couples it proves to be very exciting. It can be the best means to learn how a lover prefers to be stimulated. Each can guide the hand of the partner to show him/her which pressure and which rhythm the woman prefers. Mutual self pleasure can really spice up a sex life and open the door to experimentation. One’s desire can be increased by seeing the pleasure of the other. One can also self-love before or during sexual intercourse: it serves then as a prelude, increases the excitement, or allows the couple to perfect sexual intercourse.

The use of self-pleasure open up doors to other possibilities it can reduce the over use of vaginal penetration and bring in a new area of enjoyment and variety into the bedroom. It offers many different ways for women to reach orgasm and other types of pleasure. In women it can bring a force of excitement that is not allowed by either the softness of a vagina nor the obligation to hold on for a certain time.

In conclusion there are a many ways women can live out their sexuality. Self pleasure is one: by yourself or in the presence of a partner, frequent or occasional, solitary or mutually shared, it colours the life of one person, is absent in the life of another one, is accessible with out ever being imposed, something that people can take or leave according to their impulse.

I hope that this article has opened up the prospect that self pleasure is really something that can have so many positive benefits for women and can really be a gateway to a more rewarding sex life for your partner and yourself. It is practised by many women and for most it has been something that has only helped them in life. This section only gives a general introduction to self pleasure and guilt and many women may still have questions or still feel unsure. Please read this article again and see that self pleasure can really be such a positive influence.

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Thank you to all my readers and all the emails that I have recieved since I set up this website last year. I am glad that many of you have found this site useful and helpful in your quest to learn more about your body and gain greater pleasure from it. I hope to keep self pleasure for women as a valuable resource and remind you that if you need any assistance to contact me anytime.

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Remember girls be willing to explore as there is plenty of fun to be had.

Thanks

Holly