The Guide To Get My First Orgasm

Hi there I got an email from a 30 year old women who had never had an orgasm and well I wrote back to her how I would apporach the situation myself. In are email exchange she also said that she had several friends that she thought would benefit from my reply. I thought that there might be many other women in the same situation so decided to post my reply here.

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I hope it helps and rememeber that if you have any other questions then please contact me anytime.

Dear Reader,

To achieve and enjoy and orgasm you have to be able to let go and let your body relax and to achieve your first orgasm you need to be in the right frame of mind. I would suggest that you should wait until you have had a really good day and you are in a fantastic mood. Then you have to say I am going to treat myself and I am going to give myself an orgasm. You need to have:-

Yes, you should approach self pleasure as a treat for your self. You have had a good day and now I am going to give myself some pleasure. I am going to get this pleasure from my own body.

Then the next step is too now approach self-pleasure in the right frame of mind. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. I suggest you look at yourself in a mirror naked (yes naked!) you might feel a little uncomfortable at first but remember you have had a good day and you are in a good mood.

Look yourself in the eye and say really meaning it “I am a beautiful person with a beautiful body. I deserve pleasure and I am going to give myself pleasure.” Repeat it several times until you feel empowered and then you can go onto the actual beginning of self-pleasure.

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Please read my article “How do I get the most out of self-pleasure” on the general approach to female masturbation.

I then suggest that you focus on the clitoris at first when you are going to achieve orgasm and would have to suggest that you read my article that goes into several techniques that deal with clitoral stimulation just click here.

The reason I suggest the clitoris first is that it is the most sensitive part of the female genitalia and it is now believed that it is much larger that many previously thought and that it is connected to all parts of the female genitalia.

It maybe too sensitive for you too directly touch the clitoris but there are several techniques that easily deal with that issue in my article.

Overall I would have to say that be in a good mood and, be relaxed, make sure you have plenty of time and importantly that you are no going to be disturbed.

Every women has a beautiful body and we should all be able to gain pleasure from it be it by ourselves or with a partner.

Well girl go out there and empower yourself and treat yourself to a good orgasm. I hope these words have helped you and if you have anymore questions then please contact me anytime.

Remember if you have any more questions then please contact me.

Love