Self-Pleasure For Women Leads To Better Love-Making

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Self pleasure is the key to understanding your own body and what delights it holds that can only be released by the right stimuli. Ladies how can you have a better sex life if you don’t yourself know what buttons that need to  be pushed to give pleasure to your body? Through exploration self pleasure teaches you what sexual stimuli leads to personnel fulfilment for you. This can then be related to a partner thus leading to a much improved sex life.

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Another name for the male g-spot is the prostate. You have probably heard about the importance of prostate health, but though people like to talk about it, not many of usmen actually know about it. Females do not have male g spots, so sometimes these are called the male gland. A prostate is actually half glad, half muscle.

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Male g spots are walnut-sized and have three lobes. They surround the urethra, which is why men with prostate problems sometimes have a difficult peaing. The urethra leads from the bladder to the cock, and the prostate is located close too the bladder end of this tube, right in front of the rectum.

That means you can stimulate the prostateanally (and it also means that prostate examinations are done anally. Do not freak out about that that, though. Although many men are at first scared to the thought of massage via the anus, if you relax, it actually feels really good.

Essentially, the prostates job is make fluid that is used in semen, making up about 10-30% of the liquid ejaculated when a man orgasms. The fluid found in the prostate is slightly alkaline, in order to help combat the acidity of a womans pussy, keeping the sperm alive longer and helping to protect the DNA. So, the prostate is directly responsible for healthy babies!

Have you ever made a lady squirt through g-spot stimulation? Yes, it does happen! Essentially, you were stimulating the ladys version of the prostate, and the fluid is similar. The same thing can happen if you stimulate your prostate, you come a little. Most men who have experienced a prostate orgasm have noted indistinguishable reactions to women who have experienced squirting.

For both sexes, these are the most intense, powerful orgasms you will even have. Does that sound good? If you want details on how to stimulate the male g spot I have put together a free newsletter with lots about how to do this at male g spot massage guide. There is a correct way and an incorrect way to stimulate the prostate and I cover tips to have ongoing, prostate orgasms.

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When I first starting having these types of orgasms I was blown away in the intensity and the pleasure waves.

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A few weeks ago, I was talking to a male friend about clitoris, vulva and penis massage. I was shocked when he told me that the G spot does not exist. This made me a bit sad as it is my experience that when a woman’s G spot is touched, she can have orgasm after orgasm from massageing this area in the yoni or vulva.

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Women love a man when they know how to do the G Spot Orgasm massage. It is very simple to learn. I find in amazing that many men do not know how to stimulate the g spot. All men should learn this skill.

The G spot is located within the front wall of the vagina It is usually located half and inch from the entrance. In my experience can vary with differing women. Many women can have intense orgasmic experiences from g spot stimulation. Some might need to wee before stimulation as massaging this area can cause them to want to go.

I remember just touching with my finger on a lovers G spot with no movement at all and she had waves and waves of deep orgasms. Many women have never had present conscious touch on this sacred spot. Also many women have stored fear and deep negative emotions in this area. When this area is touched in vulva massage and clitoris massage, they feel nothing or it can be painful etc. Some may feel the urge to urinate. Men tend to store similar emotions in the anus area.

There are many ways to massage the penis that most men have never tried. My tips for a great penis massage is to take your time. Slow down some of your strokes and really get in your body and feelings. How about trying a penis massage standing up and dancing. For more information for men see penis massage

Have fun following the above vulva,penis and clitoris massage tips

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Learn some suggestions for how to give an tantra massage for men.

The best advice I like to suggest is to a slow and relaxed touch in performing tantra massage for men. Most us touch too quick and many men do not feel this erotic .

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Start with a gentle touch to start and start tantra massage for men. Can you just touch the hairs of her skin. Many guys also like a very soft touch and find it very sensual.

One can start with tantra massage for men with touching with silk. I also use some fur to stimulate my lovers body. Its a good suggestion to do a stimulating bum massage and pay attention to the buttocks as most guys hold tightness in this area.

I use soft tapping on the sacrum area can be very orgasmic. Teasing is a great way to start to massage the genitals.

Do some long moves up the legs and over the genitals and up to the head. A erotic massage over the anal area can be sexy for many guys.

Remember that you should use a lot of oil on the total body and vulva during the sensual massage.

Stimulate the genitals and massage other areas and be really teasing and come back for more teasing. Try blowing up the legs, over the gential region and up to the tits. Don't bow into the pussy.

Try opening the bottom and blowing. Try licking on the big toes. This can be very erotic.

Ask your lady to breathe stronger than normal. This can be good for building the energy.

Now your lover is most likely wanting some more private massage in downtown Los Angles.

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The best way to really hot up sex is to just open your mouth and let your turn on moan sex and sexual sounds flow. This does sound easy, but for many of us we have some blocks in doing this.

Due to some embarrassment or sexual shame, most of us do not fully express our energy during sex with Sex and Sexual Moan Sounds.

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For men, this blocks the energy in the pelvic region. The energy has only one way to go, out! This causes a lot of men to come too soon and for sex to lack a deeper emotional and heart connection.

So, opening up to sexual sounds allows the throat chakra to open and the energy to move throughout the body,

Most men really love a women that expresses their energy with sexual and sex moan sounds.

However, most men are mute. Women hate a mute man as much as men hate a mute woman.

Women love to hear their man’s energy as most women are very sensitive to energy.

Guys, WAKE UP and become a MAN that expresses your sexual energy fully.

So the sexual energy is in the sound, so let it fill the room and your lover will respond too.

It can be a real challenge to open up to being more in your sexual sounds during lovemaking. Encourage your partner to be more vocal and then see how the energy flows and how sex can become more powerful.

Feel into what blocks you restricting your erotic potential. The emotional freedom technique can be of help to remove this sexual block.

You can use sexual and sex sounds to transfer energy from one person to another. One can breath in when the other expresses their energy with sounds. AAhhh is a good sound to try in this tantric practice. Set an intention to feel your partners energy. Men can become multi orgasmic from this practice.

I cover more explicit practices in Sexual Ecstasy In 14 Days

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to Free Sexuality Tips for u and to have prostate orgasms, visit prostate massage guide

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I have put together 25 free examples of dirty talking for your enjoyment.

WARNING this page containes 4 letter words and is for 18 years and over please.

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I believe dirty talking works because women love sex and deep down are very sexual creatures. They will never admit this to you because they don't want to be called slutty.

Its funny that a man that has multiple parternes is called a stud but a women is called a slut.

What a double standard.

Dirty talking allows you to access this hidden side of a womans lusty sexuality that is usually deep down.

Lets face it, dirty talking is a great way for a man to get into his more masculine energy that women love. Dirty talking takes sex to that more lusty area. An area that is wilder and more orgasmic for some.

Dirty talking for a man allows him to lead the woman. This can enable the woman to relax and let go. This enables her to go to deep orgasmic places in her sexuality.

A women can use dirty talking to praise a mans cock, something that all men love. His cock is an expression of his man hood, so it feels great to be praised.

How about this as a free example of dirty talking.

I just love when I feel your hot cock slowly slide into me. It gives me so much pleasure.

In my free newsletter, I give 25 free examples of dirty talking

A lot of us are a bit scared to try dirty talking. I suggest start off with a little not so dirty talking and move up to more dirty.

Use four letter words like cock and pussy instead of penis or vagina. One wants to come accorss as a bit dangerous and a bit dirty. Fuck is a great word to use for sex.

One can build up to stronger words like slut that some women can react too.

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Enjoy dirty talking the next time you fuck!

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Most men and a lot of woman these days masturbate for sexual pleasure. These days there is a lot less taboos against masturbation. However, how many books have you seen lately about sex compared to any books about masturbation? And how often have you talked to your friends about masturbation?

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Most teens tend to masturbate every day. Generally, they take 5 minutes or so and use high friction strokes. Most teenagers have some embarrassment about masturbation. They do not want their parents to find out about his aspect of their sexuality.

So they make no sounds of pleasure and hide the activity away. Usually there is some fantasy involved and very little connection to their emotions and heart. Unfortunately, the teen gets in a habitual habit of having an orgasm quickly.

I personally know all of the above because it is my own experience too.

Now, when the teen makes love for the first time, he continues the habits he has taught his body over hundreds of masturbation sessions. He comes in a few minutes, he had closed eyes, he uses high friction porn style of lovemaking and he makes no sounds at all. Unfortunately these habits persist as he gets older.

Sex survey after Survey shows that the average time of intercourse for men is about 7 minutes. The funny thing is that this figure is pretty much the same in every country surveyed form the USA, India to France.

Unfortunately, most women hate this style of lovemaking. I attended a Tantra workshop the other day and 20 women were asked to describe what type of lovemaking they enjoyed the most and 18 out of 20 described a style of slow, connected and deep.

Compare that style of lovemaking to the usual porn. Clearly, if a man comes in 7 minutes, most women are gong to feel unsatisfied. A boring, short sex life is one of the main reasons women have affairs.

As a sexologist, I talk to men about their sex life. One thing I like to ask is do they like their lovers to make sounds of pleasure and express the orgasmic energy by their voice. Just about every one says they love their lovers to be vocal and hate silent women as lovers.

I then ask them if they make sounds. If they do not, I say, why the F not and why they want something from their lover that they do not do themselves.

Usually, this early wanking practice taught them not to make sounds and they continued this practice to date. It can be a real challenge to break this pattern.

Another aspect that can be difficult for men to relearn is about emotional connection. Women love a man that connects with his eyes and they can feel his heart and love.

Now, most of us do not masturbate in front of a mirror with thoughts of self love. However, this practice could be of value. How about masturbating with an attitude of loving oneself instead of a porn type fantasy?

Another thing that women love is that a man is present. This means that the man is not in his head in a fantasy or being goal focused. Most women are very sensitive and can pick up on this straight away. So being present really just means being in your body, its pleasure and energy. When men do this, the women can feel the man more and this allows them to let go more.

Tantra looks at partner connection and being totally open. These skills can take time to learn as we are taught to be closed emotionally.

I hope you enjoyed these tips on how masturbation can transform your sex life.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. For more on this topioc visit masterbation techniques and tips and male and female masterbation.

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Your lover is away and you want to try phone sex to keep the sexual tension high and the relationship sexy. Phone sex and dirty talking can be a real turn on and it can be very erotic. The following is some tips to make your next phone sex session very sexy.

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The first tip is to make sure you will have at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted time. Turn of the mobile phone and lock the door!

The second tip for some great phone sex is to describe everything in a lot of detail. Talk about all the senses, so include the smells, the sensations of touch and your feelings. The more vivid you make it the more your lover will feel it in their body.

For example, if you are describing a fantasy of being on a beach, describe the sounds of the surf and the sea gulls squawking. Describe the sand molding to your body and the heat of the sun on your naked body and how this is turning you on.

As you are not present with your lover, you need to be more erotic and hotter than usual. Describe some fantasies that you would never try in real life.

So be naughty and wild and you can't go wrong.

Dirty talking phases can be used to really hot up the session. See my free newsletter for more explicit dirty talking phases. Tell your partner exactly what you are doing in a lot of detail. Introduce more graphic words as the energy hots up.

Tune into what your partner is saying and how they are breathing. You can tell how aroused they are just by listening. Make sure you tell your partner how turned on you are by making erotic sounds of pleasure. So really enjoy yourself and let your lover know this by your sounds and energy.

Phone sex can be a great way to stay close even though your lover is hundreds of miles away.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to learn to flirt and to really prepare your lover for hos sex, see foreplay ideas and positions.

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