Comments on: Self-Pleasure, Body Image and Self Worth – You Are Beautiful http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/self-pleasure-body-image-and-self-worth-you-are-beautiful Self-pleasure explained by women for women Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:47:06 +0000 hourly 1 By: Gene Scarborough http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/self-pleasure-body-image-and-self-worth-you-are-beautiful#comment-5464 Gene Scarborough Mon, 25 Oct 2010 11:03:15 +0000 http://self-pleasureforwomen.com/self-pleasure-body-image-and-self-worth-%e2%80%93-you-are-beautiful#comment-5464 This is totally true. As a man I can tell you every man has a different code for what turns his head. I have workers who only want an overweight woman with an oversize tush! I listen to men comment on women I think are plumb ugly. To them she is "hot!" Us men have no absolute standard other than boobs / butt / legs / smile (the most important body part). The desire of Madison Avenue to present us with the "perfect lust object female" changes, if you notice. Not a single model is near as pretty in real life as she is with a high dollar make-up "artist" / air brushing / proper lighting / super expensive clothes and shoes--touting some booze / car / look they are selling to men. She is really the icing on the cake of a man's desire for "things." This is totally true. As a man I can tell you every man has a different code for what turns his head. I have workers who only want an overweight woman with an oversize tush! I listen to men comment on women I think are plumb ugly. To them she is "hot!" Us men have no absolute standard other than boobs / butt / legs / smile (the most important body part).

The desire of Madison Avenue to present us with the "perfect lust object female" changes, if you notice. Not a single model is near as pretty in real life as she is with a high dollar make-up "artist" / air brushing / proper lighting / super expensive clothes and shoes–touting some booze / car / look they are selling to men. She is really the icing on the cake of a man's desire for "things."

]]> By: Priestess_Shama http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/self-pleasure-body-image-and-self-worth-you-are-beautiful#comment-3676 Priestess_Shama Fri, 07 Aug 2009 18:08:13 +0000 http://self-pleasureforwomen.com/self-pleasure-body-image-and-self-worth-%e2%80%93-you-are-beautiful#comment-3676 VERY important information. As a H. Priestess that is involved with women's mysteries, I teach young girls about positive body image and women! This is so true when sexually pleasuring yourself and if you have partner. DO NOT FALL PREY TO THE IMAGES THAT THE AMERICAN MEDIA SATURATES US WITH, these are FALSE images, these women are bringing great harm to themselves and to their bodies by following the dictates of this culture. We are all beautiful no matter the size, shape or color. It all rests on what YOU THINK about YOU that will allow one to have a positive body image and positive self esteem. Love what you have and you will celebrate who YOU ARE. Others will follow! One of the major keys to a healthy and vibrant sex life and love partner ship is to have a joyful, loving and positive love/sexual relationship with ones image in the mirror and with your self! Take it one step at a time, if some healing from past wounds needs to take place seek therapy, either through traditional paths or more progressive ones such as a spiritual coach or counselor. You can do it ! Happy lives bring happy people! Love P. shama VERY important information. As a H. Priestess that is involved with women's mysteries, I teach young girls about positive body image and women! This is so true when sexually pleasuring yourself and if you have partner. DO NOT FALL PREY TO THE IMAGES THAT THE AMERICAN MEDIA SATURATES US WITH, these are FALSE images, these women are bringing great harm to themselves and to their bodies by following the dictates of this culture. We are all beautiful no matter the size, shape or color. It all rests on what YOU THINK about YOU that will allow one to have a positive body image and positive self esteem. Love what you have and you will celebrate who YOU ARE. Others will follow!
One of the major keys to a healthy and vibrant sex life and love partner ship is to have a joyful, loving and positive love/sexual relationship with ones image in the mirror and with your self!

Take it one step at a time, if some healing from past wounds needs to take place seek therapy, either through traditional paths or more progressive ones such as a spiritual coach or counselor. You can do it !

Happy lives bring happy people!
Love
P. shama

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