Show Me How To Use A Dildo | Read My Proven How To Use A Dildo Guide

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Show Me How To Use A Dildo | Our Guide To Dildo Use

I wrote this article “Show Me How To Use A Dildo” because I was getting so many young ladies asking about dildo use.

On this site I have explained the benefits of using a dildo and how to choose a dildo but unless you know how to use a dildo correctly you’ll never truly feel the magical orgasms and waves of pleasure a sex toy can give you.

As a result I have decided to put together a guide here; to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience.

It is not a step by step guide but break down of the key areas where you may need advice with the information you will need.

Show Me How To Use A Dildo LubricationShow Me How To Use A Dildo

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so it is very important to lube up. It’s common misconception among women that her own natural lubricant will suffice.

The truth is often the materials penetrative toys are made of actually absorb a woman’s lubricant.

Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it’s vital she doesn’t hold back on the lubricant.

Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated dildo use can lead to unpleasant friction. That may lead to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

If you are in doubt about which lube to use then a water-bases lubricant is safe to use with most toys.

Show Me How To Use A Dildo – In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a dildo before being suitably aroused.

Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones such as the clitoris.

If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands.

You would’t want a lover to jump right in. The same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

Show Me How To Use A Dildo – Take It Easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals which helps them to engorge and relax.

If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops engorgement taking place resulting in tightness, tenderness and pain.

Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it. Give the body time to relax properly.

Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feel comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion.

Remember that it is YOUR toy; you are in control. Play around with your dildo in a way that makes you happy. Work out what feels nice.

Lube yourself up around the genitals and the dildo too. Then rub the dildo against your pussy lips and clitoris teasing yourself as you slowly work you way up to penetration. By taking your time it builds up the anticipation leading to much greater pleasure.

Show Me How To Use A Dildo – Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or half of it. Put it in deeply or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again.

Let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric).

Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use. The key is to take your time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you.

Remember girls practice makes perfect. The more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Show Me How Yo Use A Dildo – To Sum Up

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished!

Always make sure that you clean your dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water. Alternatively you can use a commercial sex toy cleaner or even sterilize it in a dishwasher (many dildos are now even dishwasher safe!).

Then rinse your dildo and make sure it is properly dried.

When your dildo is squeaky clean and dry store somewhere dry and at room temperature. The ideal situation is to store it on soft material in a drawer.

Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged.

Just enjoy girls ladies – Relax, fantasize and let your imagination run wild!

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July 9, 2011

Jennifer @ 6:09 pm #

Fortunately, I learned of and started using dildos just before I started high school. I found my mothers and my best girlfriend and I experimented and played with it until we got it right. Still not sure if mom ever knew. She probably did. I bought my own just before going to college and have enjoyed one ever since. Holly's comment about using lube is very important. The most fun of it all is experimenting and trying different things. I feel it has also helped my sex life because I have learned were my hot spots are.

September 8, 2011

Merry @ 2:56 pm #

I'd like to know if Vaseline or some other common household fluid can be used as a lubricant. Embarrassed to buy in the store. LOL

April 9, 2012

Jen @ 5:29 pm #

I love to use them I. Use them everyday and all day and I love the way it feels and guys want sum of my pussy I’m like hell no

January 10, 2013

Guest @ 9:24 pm #

Baby oil!

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