Show Me How To Use A Dildo

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How To Use A Dildo

So you want to know how to use a dildo? OK ladies so on this site  we have discussed the benefits of using a dildo, how to choose a dildo however ladies unless you know how to use a sex toy correctly you will never really truly feel the real benefits or pleasure a love-aid can give.

As a result I have decided to put together a guide here to help those who are approaching dildo use without much experience. It is not a step by step guide but will point you in the right direction.

Lubrication

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it is very important to lube up. It is a common fallacy that a woman's own natural lubricant will suffice.

The truth is quite often the materials of penetrative toys actually absorb a woman's lubricant.

Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital she doesn't hold back on the lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction. That may lead to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a dildo before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones such as the clitoris.

If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

Take It Easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals which help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting in tightness and tenderness.

Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion.

Remember that it is your toy girls; you are in control and play around with your dildo as you like. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals plus your dildo too; then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then onto penetration. This really can be a lot of fun.

Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it. Put it in deeply or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again. Let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric).

Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused. There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you.

Remember girls practice makes perfect. The more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

How Yo Use A Dildo – To Sum Up

Well ladies enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean your dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water or a commercial sex toy cleaner or even sterilize it (many dildos are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse your dildo and make sure it is properly dried.

Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry store somewhere dry and at room temperature. The ideal situation is to store in a soft material in a drawer.

Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

A good dildo is never tired, has a head ache plus always give an orgasm! (who needs a man)?

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July 9, 2011

Jennifer @ 6:09 pm #

Fortunately, I learned of and started using dildos just before I started high school. I found my mothers and my best girlfriend and I experimented and played with it until we got it right. Still not sure if mom ever knew. She probably did. I bought my own just before going to college and have enjoyed one ever since. Holly's comment about using lube is very important. The most fun of it all is experimenting and trying different things. I feel it has also helped my sex life because I have learned were my hot spots are.

September 8, 2011

Merry @ 2:56 pm #

I'd like to know if Vaseline or some other common household fluid can be used as a lubricant. Embarrassed to buy in the store. LOL

January 10, 2013

Guest @ 9:24 pm #

Baby oil!

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