Comments on: Women’s Sexual Fantasies – How Women Fantasize http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/womens-sexual-fantasies-how-women-fantasize Self-pleasure explained by women for women Thu, 04 Mar 2010 23:26:07 +0000 hourly 1 By: Gene Scarborough http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/womens-sexual-fantasies-how-women-fantasize#comment-3146 Gene Scarborough Sun, 03 May 2009 03:00:08 +0000 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/?p=481#comment-3146 My fantasy of watching a woman pleasure herself with a dildo has become a reality. It stimulates me to crank up a good ejaculation so that my wife may be truely happy and completed. Years ago in a sociology class there was an attempt to define "love." The definition which emerged was: "Love exists when the satisfaction and security of another becomes as important as one's own." I felt that was fairly accurate. It revolves around the satisfaction needed by the individual to feel completed. If one is not fortunate enough to have the real emotional companion, then I think it is essential that fantasy make up for the difference. Us fortunate few enjoy the ying and yang of male and female coupling. However, in God's great wisdom, I believe he gave us the ability to fantasize to enhance whatever physical things take place in the sexual experience. Keep up the good work and input. It is extremely important in this sexually confused world. My fantasy of watching a woman pleasure herself with a dildo has become a reality. It stimulates me to crank up a good ejaculation so that my wife may be truely happy and completed.

Years ago in a sociology class there was an attempt to define "love." The definition which emerged was: "Love exists when the satisfaction and security of another becomes as important as one's own." I felt that was fairly accurate. It revolves around the satisfaction needed by the individual to feel completed. If one is not fortunate enough to have the real emotional companion, then I think it is essential that fantasy make up for the difference. Us fortunate few enjoy the ying and yang of male and female coupling. However, in God's great wisdom, I believe he gave us the ability to fantasize to enhance whatever physical things take place in the sexual experience.

Keep up the good work and input. It is extremely important in this sexually confused world.

]]> By: Gene Scarborough 3 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/womens-sexual-fantasies-how-women-fantasize#comment-3145 Gene Scarborough 3 Sun, 03 May 2009 02:58:14 +0000 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/?p=481#comment-3145 Now that we are in our 60's we find fantasy and great way to enhance our sexual experience. Thanks to your information, I have been able to talk my conservative southern girl into getting out the natural playtoy and use it again with me involved. I give her the same stimulation of neck kisses, ear nibbling, breast and nipple play, and rubbing from tummy to feet while she uses the vibrations and rubs of the dildo to enjoy reaching her climax. It is exciting for me and makes me ready to enter her and give her my real stimulation and release which she craves from the bottom of her female anatomy. She is so spoiled to my ejaculation that she finds her experience incomplete without it. There have been times when work, destraction, and pure old age have prevented me from reaching climax. The great advice and detail of instruction from you has not prevented my wife from getting her pleasure and release followed by her sense of total relaxation. I believe this is essential to peace of mind and a healthy body in our older years. Now that we are in our 60's we find fantasy and great way to enhance our sexual experience. Thanks to your information, I have been able to talk my conservative southern girl into getting out the natural playtoy and use it again with me involved. I give her the same stimulation of neck kisses, ear nibbling, breast and nipple play, and rubbing from tummy to feet while she uses the vibrations and rubs of the dildo to enjoy reaching her climax. It is exciting for me and makes me ready to enter her and give her my real stimulation and release which she craves from the bottom of her female anatomy.

She is so spoiled to my ejaculation that she finds her experience incomplete without it. There have been times when work, destraction, and pure old age have prevented me from reaching climax. The great advice and detail of instruction from you has not prevented my wife from getting her pleasure and release followed by her sense of total relaxation. I believe this is essential to peace of mind and a healthy body in our older years.

]]> By: Gene Scarborough 2 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/womens-sexual-fantasies-how-women-fantasize#comment-3144 Gene Scarborough 2 Sun, 03 May 2009 02:54:55 +0000 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/?p=481#comment-3144 We have been separated sometimes for 3-4 weeks, but phone sex was a great substitute. I bought her a natural sized and shaped dildo when we were apart. She recently told me that although it was not as good as me, it gave her a unique and intense pleasure and orgasm while we talked over the phone. I found my hand to be a much greater companion at that time than in our pre-marriage days when I just had to find relief after some intense and exciting foreplay. Neither of us could barely wait until the "I DO'S" so we could consumate our passion for each other. We have been separated sometimes for 3-4 weeks, but phone sex was a great substitute. I bought her a natural sized and shaped dildo when we were apart. She recently told me that although it was not as good as me, it gave her a unique and intense pleasure and orgasm while we talked over the phone. I found my hand to be a much greater companion at that time than in our pre-marriage days when I just had to find relief after some intense and exciting foreplay. Neither of us could barely wait until the "I DO'S" so we could consumate our passion for each other. We have been separated sometimes for 3-4 weeks, but phone sex was a great substitute. I bought her a natural sized and shaped dildo when we were apart. She recently told me that although it was not as good as me, it gave her a unique and intense pleasure and orgasm while we talked over the phone. I found my hand to be a much greater companion at that time than in our pre-marriage days when I just had to find relief after some intense and exciting foreplay. Neither of us could barely wait until the "I DO'S" so we could consumate our passion for each other.

We have been separated sometimes for 3-4 weeks, but phone sex was a great substitute. I bought her a natural sized and shaped dildo when we were apart. She recently told me that although it was not as good as me, it gave her a unique and intense pleasure and orgasm while we talked over the phone. I found my hand to be a much greater companion at that time than in our pre-marriage days when I just had to find relief after some intense and exciting foreplay. Neither of us could barely wait until the "I DO'S" so we could consumate our passion for each other.

]]> By: Gene Scarborough http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/womens-sexual-fantasies-how-women-fantasize#comment-3143 Gene Scarborough Sun, 03 May 2009 02:52:06 +0000 http://www.self-pleasureforwomen.com/?p=481#comment-3143 Holly, I think you are exactly right. The first and most important aspect of a sexual relationship is that both partners or the individual explore what turns them on. My experience over some 40 years of a normal sexual relationship with one person is that our fantasies and realities have vastly changed over those 40 years. I am married to a somewhat conservative, but lusty woman. She has just revealed to me how during pregnancy and my busy career, she masterbated during the last trimester.____This indicated to me there is a drive in women to perpare their bodies for childbirth. In both births she had a relatively quick and easy delivery. The same muscles which produce a child are involved in orgasm. I suspect the hormonal release after orgasm is a further help to give a woman a sense of total peace and relaxation. She is not what one would call "kinky." Rather she is a healthy southern girl with a considerable libido. I have felt it my responsibility as a loving husband to make sure she has her orgasm before, during, or after I have mine. In the few times when we have missed each other we have both felt a great sense of frustration and made it up the next time.____ Holly, I think you are exactly right. The first and most important aspect of a sexual relationship is that both partners or the individual explore what turns them on. My experience over some 40 years of a normal sexual relationship with one person is that our fantasies and realities have vastly changed over those 40 years. I am married to a somewhat conservative, but lusty woman. She has just revealed to me how during pregnancy and my busy career, she masterbated during the last trimester.____This indicated to me there is a drive in women to perpare their bodies for childbirth. In both births she had a relatively quick and easy delivery. The same muscles which produce a child are involved in orgasm. I suspect the hormonal release after orgasm is a further help to give a woman a sense of total peace and relaxation. She is not what one would call "kinky." Rather she is a healthy southern girl with a considerable libido. I have felt it my responsibility as a loving husband to make sure she has her orgasm before, during, or after I have mine. In the few times when we have missed each other we have both felt a great sense of frustration and made it up the next time.____

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